If you don't like the person,would you refuse him/her straightly?

Well if I don't like the person, I would find some polite excuse to refuse her without hurting her emotionally like I have someone in my mind. I think that she would be able to understand me well if I say so. Of course, there are many other ways as well. I can also tell her that I am not considering love affairs for the time being for the sake of my work and study and that I need to be concentrated in my work for a better future...Thanks for your discussion, dear friend.

Hi fanji, if someone whom we dont like express love for us..we shd just tell them tht... we cannot accept their love as we do not hv the same feelings for them. You cld accept them as normal friends. It is better to tell the other person sooner as it is not good to mislead them.

Hi Fanji, Well, it depends on the person whose involves on a situation like what you've mentioned. If you would ask me, I will tell a boy/girl - frankly that I don't like him/her. You know why? Because the sooner the better! The sooner he knows that I don't like him/her at all, it will be more easier for him/her to get over it. Unlike those people who are trying to be "nice" but then end up rejecting the people they don't like as well. It's more painful that way - i guess... Kinda a cruel! It's not bad if you tell someone directly - I DON'T LIKE YOU!!! You will be just fooling someone or even yourself by doing the opposite, knowing inside your heart- you really don't care at all. You are just being honest on what you feel. And If ever someone tells me that he/she don't like my guts - I don't mind. I won't get offended, besides you cannot please everybody. Right?... The most important thing is you do express what you feel. It helps a lot!.. Have a nice day! Godbless...