Where's my cup?
By chrislotz
@chrislotz (8137)
Canada
November 26, 2007 10:11am CST
I warmed up the pot of coffee that was left over from yesterday. I poured myself and my hubby a cup of coffee. It was yuky. I guess it was too old, although I've done this before and it was okay. So my hubby put on another pot of coffee. When it was ready he poured himself a cup and brought it down stairs. He sat in the livingroom and turned on the TV and sat down to watch. He's on holidays right now, that's why he's home from work. So I said to him, Where's my cup? His reply was, right in front of you. I couldn't believe he didn't get me a cup. He wsn't being rude, just not very thoughtful. He thought his reply was funny and laughed at it. So I just got up and poured myself a cup.
Why are men not as thoughtful as us women are? The next time he went up for another cup he took mine with him and filled mine too. Why could he not think of doing this on his own? Why do we have to remind them? Does your hubby do this?
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@girlgonefishing (2174)
• United States
26 Nov 07
My husband doesn't drink coffee but, I wake up every morning to a fresh brewed pot. He never forgets to start a pot of coffee for me before he goes to work. On the weekends, he brings me a cup of coffee to bed!
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@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
26 Nov 07
wow, you are one lucky woman. How long have you been married? My hubby used to do the same in the beginning of our marriage, he even used to bring me breakfast in bed. But those days are over. I still do it for him, though. I don't think I'll stop because I like to do it. It makes me feel good about myself.
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@girlgonefishing (2174)
• United States
26 Nov 07
We have been together for 7 years. Married for 5 years. Believe me, I spoil him WAY more than he spoils me but, I really am glad for every little thing he does for me because I know that most men expect to be spoiled by their wives and don't do anything in return. I think my husband does it mostly because he knows that my brother would kill him otherwise...LOL
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@BayleighGray (4334)
• United States
27 Nov 07
My hubby is pretty attentive and Im the one that he is reminding! Argh! Isnt that bad of me?
Hubby is always asking me if I need this or that, and saying Im going to the kitchen need something? I do it, but not as much as he does. Which makes me feel bad, so Im working on doing it more. He so deserves it.
I do get up VERY early in the morning, when I dont have too, lol to fix his coffee while hes getting ready for work. So I think that makes up for a lot of other times Ive forgotten. Hehe!
Bay Lay Gray xx
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@kcbomba (616)
• United States
27 Nov 07
ls more like an instinct , on the women , to be more concentrated and homely than the men; besides, men , do a lot of thinking .You should consider that before judging too. But , you ,women are the mothers of the home , men really can't take their place ,so can women can't take that of men. ls logic .
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@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
26 Nov 07
Mine doesnt drink coffee but yes I have to remind him if hes having something and doesnt offer me any.LOL I find that alot of men are like that. But there are some out there!LOL My cousins husband is always asking her if she wants whatever he is having. They are so cute together. I think that generally women are more polite and we always ask.
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@sabbathandruth (567)
• Canada
26 Nov 07
they are always thinking about stupid things i believe,
but what can you do
lol
