What would you do if your partner is in a bad mood?
By mari123
@mari123 (1861)
China
13 responses
@sheenshaukat (2617)
• Pakistan
10 Feb 08
We should respect each other. We should see that why the partner is in bad mood. Is he or she suffering from fever, high blood pressure, low blood pressure, fear, hungry, irritation and some thing is wrong in some other type ? Is he or she became in such bad due to some fault caused you? We should check and note the reason. We should study and know about the fact to solve the problem. Every problem has its solution. We should resolve the problem and try to reinstate his or her mood. We should consider it as our duty. We should try to make him or her laugh to convert bad mood in to good mood.
@cliffcliff (1350)
• United States
7 Dec 07
best to tell them a bad mood does no good for anybody.. i would not put up with it!!
@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
23 Feb 08
When my husband is in a bad mood, I usually like to get to the bottom of the problem, and see what is really bothering him, so that I can help and support him in it, and help get the problem solved faster. when bad moods just simmer, nothing gets solved.
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
29 Nov 07
No, But the only thing that I do when i know that he is bad mood is by giving him a good massage and a lot of kiss and embrace. And for sure he would smile and hug me back. When I am in the mood he just do the same and all of teh sudden, just like magic, I would start to have a good mood then. I love him very much...
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@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
23 Feb 08
I just don't get angry at all. But try to understand him. And as much as possible, I don't talk to him and avoid being near him. So he will cool his head first. And if he is okay already, I'll ask him why.
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
27 Nov 07
I would try to change my partner's mood.i would ask her problem and pain which when she explains,i would console her and give her happiness so that her mood changes.if she still remains in that mood i would leave her alone and i am sure she will surely be back to normalcy.
@kevsgirlalways (5883)
• Malaysia
27 Nov 07
i'd be annoyed i guess, if my partner is in a bad mood. like if i wanna share anything with him and he's just not in the mood for it..i'll probably leave him alone to cool down, and until he realizes that he shouldn't let his anger out on me hehehe.
@marice0929 (20)
• Philippines
27 Nov 07
i would normally be crossed if my partner is in a bad mood... it would really affect my mood too.... but i have learned to live with these realities... so when he's in a bad mood i would just keep away from his path... keep my silence if possible and allow him to cool down.. anyway, once he gets to recover from this mood... he wil return to his sweet self once more... afterall.. he has been very tolerant of my worst moods too... it's but proper to give him the chance to let him have his moods too...
@sandeep_t (428)
• India
27 Nov 07
It differes from men and women. If the lady is in a bad mood, the male partner got to ask her how she is feeling, should patiently hear what she is saying, got to say some soothing words (very difficult for men to do all these). If a male partenr is in bad mood, better the lady leave him alone for some time. Just ak him once and dont petser him. (Ladies always pester that men doesnt share with them, they irritate)
@prettyhanan (694)
• Malaysia
27 Nov 07
Hello mari.
I will slap his face then tell him that I hate it and don't show me if he want to stay by my side. Maybe its rude but life will not fun if we stay in bad mood because we will make people around us sad and you will destroy your life. So, better you make happy mood.
HAPPY LUCKY.
**prettyhanan**
@irene_27 (542)
• Philippines
27 Nov 07
If my partner is in his bad mood i just let him alone and wait until he's back in his usual self. I don't try to get in his way or else i'll never hear the end of it. I respect that on those particular instances he has to spend time with himself in the same breath that he does it also to me whenever i'm not in a good mood too. I think it's just a matter of give and take.