do you believe in love at first sight?
By simonpaul
@simonpaul (737)
Nigeria
November 28, 2007 6:13am CST
i personally believe that real love develops people that you spend time with. and not people you just meet. and i think that this should be reason while people's mirrages and relatonships get seperated because they feel for this love at first sight thing some time in the past.
4 responses
@dream2427 (5)
• United States
29 Nov 07
Several years ago I noticed someone (just standing in line at lunch) that I was instantly drawn to. I was dating someone else at the time, but I could not get this guy off my mind. Several months later we actually "met" each other officially for the first time, at a BBQ, while I was with my boyfriend. Turns out he "noticed" me too that day months prior. Long story short I left the BBQ with his number and with every intention of ending the relationship I was in; which I did 1 week later. We dated for several years before ending our relationship amicably and as friends. I do agree that love grows and deepens over time. And that there is value in courtship and friendship. I also feel that often times people confused LOVE with LUST or INTRIGUE.
@simonpaul (737)
• Nigeria
29 Nov 07
thanks for that wonderful contribution. understanding is the soul of any relationship and that his what we all wish ourselves.
@jr_sci (16)
• India
28 Nov 07
Love can be in first sight if you were both made for each other. I would suggest you that you should get back your luck and try out a girl of your choice whom you can trust and can stay happy for your life.
@simonpaul (737)
• Nigeria
28 Nov 07
i think you are getting all wrong. who's talking about my girl or luck to for my girl? what we a talking about is the theory of love at first sight which is beign propergated by movies, novies, soap operes etc which is not that real in the real world.
@nengs10 (3180)
• Philippines
28 Nov 07
I dont believe in Love at first sight,and I never experienced that feeling,I believe that two people will develop to each other if they are always together knowing each other then thats the start of falling in love.
@simonpaul (737)
• Nigeria
28 Nov 07
i certainlly beleivein your idea. if two develop mutual respect and understanding for each other and the eventually love each other that is all is needed for a relationship tha will last till enternity and reign after enternity!!!!!!!
@jintodelhi (136)
• India
28 Nov 07
Yes, I believe in Love at first Sight. If you feel love to some at the first sight it means you are in real love with that person. There may be some excemption which I am not considering here.
@simonpaul (737)
• Nigeria
28 Nov 07
the first appearance of a person can be the most deceptive part of that person. and thabt is why a longe courtship is always recommended by mirrage counsellors or better than that it is beter to just stay know somebody spend time with the person and over some time when you have really known the person then love develop within you and that way the couple tend to know each other better. the reason why i support this is that if the couple know you that thry people are in a love relationship, like it or not there will be a lot of pretense from both sides and that will eventually backfire in if they get married.
