Are you Naturally born "listener" or "talker"?
By errielle
@errielle (442)
Philippines
November 28, 2007 5:51pm CST
There are people who are very good in listening. Others are so comfortable talking and sharing with whatever experiences they have, but are not good listeners.
I'm a talker... really... =) but some people come and share their experiences with me. I didn't know I can be a listener,too but friends say I am.
How about you? Are u a born talker? or a listener? or perhaps both? =)
3 responses
@babiixgiirl (258)
•
30 Nov 07
I'm constantly being told that I'm a listener by all my friends - if any of them have any problems, then they always come to me - even if it's something one of our mutual friends has done to upset them, they know I'll try and talk it through with the other person - apparently, I'm very tactful, lolz!
I mean, don't get me wrong, I DO talk to my friends, but I don't really share problems with them, as such - I'd rather work through my problems on my own, to be honest.
@errielle (442)
• Philippines
1 Dec 07
Hi babiixgirl! Isn't not hard if you don't talk about your problems to some friends? When i have a problem, I really find it difficult keeping it to myself. It's very heavy emotionally. So sometimes. I just have to run away with a friend and talk about what i feel or whatever problems I have to at least ease up a bit.
Thanks for sharing though!
@bong_domingo (878)
• Philippines
29 Nov 07
i don't maybe neither.... because there times that i can be a good listener for people that i'm comfortable listening to,which i think is bad sometimes because i tend to be selective. But there are just times that i just need to shut my ears and just pretend that i'm listening because what goes to my ears are not worth listening to or are bad for my health :-) LOL. Sometimes i can be a good talker, again with people i'm comfortable talking to.... as in :-)
@megumiart (3771)
• United States
28 Nov 07
I think I'm both, most of the time a listener, though. I'm the type of person my friends come to to tell me their woes and for support. But I also enjoy being a talker.
