When you are upset or your mood is off do you log in to mylot?

Quite right! Sometimes when I am feeling as like you describe, I will just drop by myLot and check out some discussions. Quite a therapy lol! :P

It depends on how upset I am. If I am deeply hurt by someone then my heart becomes very heavy, and the I don't like to do anything as I loose inerest from everything, I cannot even eat when I am hurt......I just like to sit silently and let the time heal my pain slowly till I feel a bit lighter. Usually I don't discuss my problem directly but if I will find someone already discussing something similar to my problem, then I participate in this discussion and I admit that I do feel much much better after discussion with people , it does help me to take out all my hidden feelings, I do sometimes also cry while writing and when we cry we do wash out all our pain. So I will agree with you to some extent that discussing of problems can help us to overcome our upset mood and we come back to normal much sooner. Nice discussion and have a nice day.

Dearest Deepak, This is a very pertinent post, I must say, Deepak. I think, myLot is therapeutic in so many ways! I have shared, wept, laughed, smiled and grown with the friends here. Some of them have become integral part of my life, I cannot do without them. I have shared the deepest secrets; I have admitted the worst mistakes and confided in the private moments with my friends here. So, obviously, this place soothes me when I am in pains. I feel talking out our hearts and letting others empathize with my agony helps a lot and there could be no better place than this for I believe, we have no barter system among us, no fear, no inhibition of getting misunderstood . That’s one aspect of virtual friendship I really appreciate. Thanks for being there in thick and thin.

Hi Deepak! When I am upset I prefer to 'eat' or do some 'shopping' and never mylotting. I have discussed some things which has upset me in mylot but it is much later I have done that. When I am upset I prefer to be left alone.

Hi dpk! To be honest with you, I really don't log in to mylot when i am not in the mood or i am upset. I rather have a quiet moment all by myself. I just don't like affecting people if i can help it. Sometimes, i just try to do other things like get busy with my crafts. I really don't get chatty when i am sad, not in the mood or upset. Probably one day, i will who knows. haha.. Take care and have a nice day. :)

even if i'm upset, i still log here just to check some uplifting lines to set my day right. But with an upset mood i don't usually communicate or post responses, i just simply read responses until i get my mood back ....

well, mostly when i getting bad mood and log into myLot, i m able to change my own mood again. i know its strange but read some discussion and problem which is stated in here make my problem seem smaller and being optimism again. i do really love and enjoying to be here. and guess what? i have many wonderful friend from here, as like you dear dpk262006. but there is also time when i just wanna read and read in myLot. i mean here just browsing in myLot without posting response or make new decission

I do, to try and up my mood and it does help but I have had a few times where I couldn't feel better so logged off.... I do it to take my mind off things or to vent depending, but usually find a discussion to uplift my mood....

When I am in bad mood, I want to be alone and watch comedies, take a long walk and drink bed time tea... I don't want to be on mylot or any social site at all. I don't like to put my mood on other people.

Im always in a good mood and a happy person. But Ive been depressed a couple of times and coming on mylot helped feel happy again. My friends know I love to laugh so they always say the right thing to get my out of it.

yes,i do log onto mylot whenever my mood is not fine.most of the times i get something to read or respond to ease my mood.if somehow it doesn't work,i try lifting my mood by some good loud music.:)

I think I do have a tendancy to go to My Lot when I am upset. It is a good way to switch off what is bothering me. On rare occasions, I can even write about my concerns knowing someone will respond.

Well I have found that wehn I am lonely Mylot s a good place to be. When I am feeling sad it s still a good place to be and when I am in a rotten mood which is once in a year I beleive mylot is still a good plae to be. I learn to put my feelings aside and reach out to others and I do feel better and even get a good laugh and a smile from the postings.

I guess I do mylot in whatever mood I am in. Whenever I am upset or if my mood is off, then the reason that I would do mylot is to enlighten myself and seek good advises from others that will help uplift myself. I try to be mindful with what I say, but it sure does help out after receiving the responses from others. There are a lot of mylotters who knows how to give good advises and they are also helpful. It depends on what you start typing, but to me it is beneficial to start a discussion and also to observe on how others deal with a similar situation as yours. Of course, some peace and quiet which gives me time to write poems or anything that comes to mind helps me also if I don't have a pc to log on to. Thanks!

I never do mylot when I am upset..!! Its almost imp-ossible for me to do mylot when I am not in a good mood. I like communicating with people when i am in good mood but when I am in bad mood then I need some one close to me or some music to calm my self down. Mylot is something I like to share my happy life with. I don't share my sad life with any one..except one or two people. :)

i have not been on here for a while but last couple of days have been quite trying. So i decided to take a look on here knowing everyone is always here and i already feel better.

For me, it all depends on what the problem is and how upset I am. Sometimes, I am too upset to concentrate on Mylot. So I have to wait a while before talking about what is bothering me. Most of the time, however, I am able to vent and others responses help me to calm down and see things from a different prospective. I really count on my friends on Mylot when something is bothering me.

No.. I dont like to mylot when i am upset.. May be i would be reading the responses given by others and may browse some other sites.. For the past three days i didnot turn up here to mylot... with the the reason of upset.

nope, usually when i am upset i won't have the mood to logon to mylot and respond to discussions at all. i'd rather watch a movie or series that i've downloaded or do things that doesn't require my mind to think ehhehe...guess i'm not upset now, that's why i'm here lol :)

I think it's a great, I mostly talk to kids all day and it's nice to talk to people with opinions and sense of humors that don't involved fart jokes!