What's the FIRST thing you notice about that possible special someone?
By Jusred
@Jusred (1578)
United States
October 28, 2006 10:23pm CST
What's the first thing you find attractive in someone else? Their smile? Their eyes? Their first words to you? Maybe that instant chemistry feeling that can't be defined-
Maybe that 'something else'-??
Curious to hear your answers.. ANY and ALL-:)
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21 responses
@ronit_therocker (75)
• India
29 Oct 06
when i see a girl first i'll notice her eyes and face.Then i'll find smile in her face as i like girl's god gifted lovely smile.I've seen many girls who looks beautiful while smiling though they are not so while not smiling and vice versa.I'll be plesured if i see any beautiful girl with her cute smile and my first word will be WOW.
@kgwat70 (13387)
• United States
20 Dec 06
I would definitely have to say their smile. A persons smile always gets my attention before anything else. I would rather be with someone that smiles a lot than someone that does not smile. It tells me that they like me or are interested in me.
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@Jusred (1578)
• United States
20 Dec 06
Thank you for your response!
It seems most people are first attracted to another by the eyes and the smile..
They say the eyes are the 'window into one's soul'..and how true, when you think about it~
And a person's smile, along with the eyes, are usually the first gesture of good towards another..The smile helps to bring brightness into one's eyes..helps allow that inner light of the soul to shine through..
:)
@pagli84 (1850)
• Netherlands
11 Nov 06
i think my first impression is definitely their looks which i guess is superficial, but that is the first thing you see so its natural to judge someone on that. the first things i notice are: body, eyes, and smile. i am known to notice eyes...i just love them!
but then once you get to talk to them, its a different story.
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@Jusred (1578)
• United States
10 Dec 06
~For me, when I first meet someone, I usually notice the eyes first also..then their overall 'aura'..And what I take into a larger account now, as opposed to what one time really mattered, is the heart inside..That will be the deciding factor upon the entire 'package'..
@Jusred (1578)
• United States
21 Dec 06
I am sorry to hear of your troubles~
The many things we can't 'figure out' about our significant other indeed create walls between us..But maybe if you can find a way around, over or even a door through his 'walls' can be the saving grace..Our differences make us unique and can endear us to one another as well..Maybe focusing more on the things that you love about him may help..If not, counseling always seems to be the answer given -and it is a good one, for troubles that can't be worked out amongst you yourselves~
Good Luck to you and thank you for your response!
@shannon154 (132)
• United States
20 Dec 06
It would have to be his face first, esp. the eyes. My husband has LONG eyelashes and pretty eyes. My kids now do too.:)I guess after that it would have to be his over all appearence and how well he takes good care of himself.
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@kunal1702 (233)
• India
20 Dec 06
I'm an emotional human being so to me the nature of an individual matters the most & further intimates me towards her attraction.
To be precise I like simple human being that can be judge through the amount of make-up one puts & attitute one possess.
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@MrsFrizzle (1963)
• United States
29 Oct 06
He was in my theatre class and I noticed he was funny
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@Funloving (879)
• India
29 Oct 06
the way they comunicate is that friendly or profesional ?
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@univermal (104)
• United States
29 Oct 06
amount of eye contact... i think thats more of a subconcious aspect... but thats an idicator rather than a concious choice..
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
29 Oct 06
Well first i look at his shoes.But the teeth have to be nice and white.
