love merraige is good or arrange merraige ?????
By go4amitshah
@go4amitshah (1005)
India
6 responses
@mdchennai (2129)
• India
29 Nov 07
Well friend, i will prefer for love come arranged marriage. Its like if we love someone then that love should be accepted by parents and should be made as arranged marriage. I prefer this is good because, when you love someone before marriage, you come to know about them and if they don't suite us then we don't have to suffer because we are not commited to them. But if it is arranged marriage then there is lots of problem.
@go4amitshah (1005)
• India
30 Nov 07
Dear friend
That is true.
i also prefer love come arranged merraige but after merraige your wife not adjust with your family any reason then also we suffer that time what you do????
1 person likes this
@mdchennai (2129)
• India
30 Nov 07
Hey when you are in love at that time itself you have to explain your partner everything about your family members so that they adjust themselves accordingly.
@go4amitshah (1005)
• India
5 Dec 07
dear friend
you r right
but in love merraige
u have problem after merraige
because after merraige their are lot of expection from your lover and also your expect from you
then in practical life some time we can not satisfy our lover expection vice se versa then create problem
there is serve
85 % love merraige did not suceed
@niranjans87 (1077)
• India
4 Dec 07
How about you fall in love with someone and then everybody (and i mean the parents and others) agree that its the right decision for us to get married.More like Arranged Love Marriage.thats the best.
@niranjans87 (1077)
• India
5 Dec 07
Well what is the definition of a successful marriage.Most people consider that if the couple dont get divorced then its a happy marriage.But i have been witness to several marriages where the couple stay together even though they are not happy with eachother.they are together cos the society thinks getting a divorce is bad and tehy are together to maintain their status quo.Whats the use of such a relationship and your figures my friend saying 85 % of love marriages fail is definitely wrong.I mean you say a love marriage cos your expectations are not fulfilled.Well in love marriages atleast i know the person and can lower my expectations.How can I do that in an arranged marriage where i dont even know the person properly.My disappointment is going to be even stronger.
@go4amitshah (1005)
• India
5 Dec 07
dear friend
you r right
but in love merraige
u have problem after merraige
because after merraige their are lot of expection from your lover and also your expect from you
then in practical life some time we can not satisfy our lover expection vice se versa then create problem
there is serve
85 % love merraige did not suceed
@go4amitshah (1005)
• India
5 Dec 07
dear friend
you r right
but in love merraige
u have problem after merraige
because after merraige their are lot of expection from your lover and also your expect from you
then in practical life some time we can not satisfy our lover expection vice se versa then create problem
there is serve
85 % love merraige did not suceed
@tazpromote (965)
• United States
29 Nov 07
I believe that if you don't love someone, you should not marry them. I am not into the arranged marriage thing because I believe in free will. It should be your choice as to whom you marry and not someone elses choice for you.
@wangshuang3121 (125)
• China
4 Dec 07
I think for different people it will have a different answer. I support love marrage,because we can know each other before the marrage,that's good for the after marrage life.
@supriyorajj (169)
• India
30 Nov 07
Love is a sensational feeling one can ever get to feel being a human being.But then to love someone one has never ever met in one's life is definitely not quite practical.I hope one can get to manage both of the stuffs in one's life,that shall bring out the best from the life.
Why not marry in an arranged fashion to someone that one loves the most.
