Future Brother in Law Nightmare
By vedelgado
@vedelgado (3)
United States
November 29, 2007 1:29pm CST
I recently had my future brother in law from Washington State move in with me at my own place in Texas. I am dating his brother who I am now getting married to in March of 2008. His brother has been driving me nuts!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am so frustrated, he eats all my food, runs the electricity bills to $400.00., leaves stuff everywhere, and goes through my cell phone if I leave it at home......He hasn't paid rent in about three months and he has been there for four. He questions every move I make. I am 25 years old and he is 19. I have a two story home and I had to jump out the second window to go hang with my friends, because he scares me!!!! My fiance is in the navy and came back home on October 10th of this year. I told him about everything, and he says that his brother is being over protective. But lately I been taking it out on my fiance and causing my to act different. I think if his brother would be here longer I will not end up marrying him?????? My fiance's brother is moving back next week to Washington and i can be more excited....?? What should I do in the mean time....
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@crazyanniecroc (30)
• United States
29 Nov 07
I would just have to stay i would hide my self from him for the rest of the week. Then i would hope that your life will go back to normal after that. Then i would sit down with my fiance and go over the bills his brother has stacked up. Maybe then the will see what is going on. But just keep looking at the fact its only one more week away and then he will be gone for a little bit of time.
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@vedelgado (3)
• United States
29 Nov 07
but he quit for this friday that means that he will be on the computer all next week before he leave causing a mess!!!!! I can't do it!!! How should I ask him politely to leave already
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@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
29 Nov 07
hmmmmmmmmm
sounds kinda like my brother
anyone who is considering marrying me should consider that sort of thing very carefully, especially the electricity bills
@Ohara_1983 (4117)
• Kuwait
3 Dec 07
Just try to be patient in a week till your fiances will come, just ignore him dont be bothered to fight or argue with him, in that time your fiance will come back home, you can explain to him let him listen and understand what is your feeling, so he can decide what is good for booth of you.
Wish you Luck Miss. Vedegaldo
@sephrenia (567)
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3 Dec 07
I reckon you should do your best just to stay out of the way while this guy is still here and then when he leaves, hold a party!
I'm just kidding about the party. I really don't think your husband to be understands just what his brother is like especially as he's not there a lot. Maybe you could video his behaviour secretly and then show your fiancee when he returns. Granted you only have a weeks worth of filming but it's a thought.
Other than that staying out of the way and keeping hold of all your personal possesions is all I can think of. If this guy is being that much of a jerk, I would also make sure that there is nothing valuable he can run off with either because he sounds like the type of guy to steal your stuff while you aren't looking regardless of being family.
I wish you the very best of luck in getting rid of this nutjob!
@blueunicorn (2401)
• United States
29 Nov 07
I think you should do what you can to make life more comfortable for the next week, then enjoy your freedom and happiness after your future bil leaves. When you have a definitive date that the torture is going to be gone it may make it easier to handle. I wish you luck!
