~ A Question Concerning Relationships!:D~

you should analyze things too. sit down and think what are your traits that makes you so special then think of your traits that makes you weak. then think of your traits that makes people take advantage of you. there are people who really loves talking about themselves and never have time to listen to other people. don't call them friends.... coz they are not. they are just calling you friend coz they take advantage of you and your time. friends can communicate freely no matter if you are single and they are married. since your nephew and nieces loves you then why not just be friends with them. in my life to i got friends who hurt me, took advantage of me, and need me just because i am that easy to call. but i realize i only have few friends who treats me as a good friend so i stick with them. i also have 4 kids and they are one of my bestfriends. i would rather live alone than have friends who doesnt meet me in the eye. you sound like a wonderful person really.... i hope you find real good friends. smile.

Why hello there once again! Well I think I already have a lot of valid ideas as to why I keep getting hurt like I do, for one, I'm too nice and too gullible, & ignornant to know if I am actually being taking advantage of or not. This is Not a personal judgement, it's a fact. Then there's the weight problem followed by the looks. People who look like me have to take waht we get.....we can not just walk in and pick and chose on a nicer model, & that's just the way it is. As for me? I'll stick to being a good aunt, because I can not see how my life will get any better. Life is Not like "Fantasy Island" for all & this is exspecially the case of ugly, fat people. And even though this may sound a bit anal, or more like a judgement call, per say, I am only stating a fact. What homely over person that You know if your own life is truely happy where they are at? Are they living the "Fantasy Island" life or are they struggleing everyday to make their own ends meet? More true then not, If you actually live in the Blue collar world, the real world, Not in hollywood, you'll find that the majority of us bigger obese people are struggling every day trying to find where we belong, and trying to make ends meet. Enough said. Personally I'm not really sure that I'll ever be happy, & from my personal experiences, I'm actually wondering if that is only for a select few?? One never really knows. Prehaps someone should just settle for what we can get.....for it's the best that us overweight homely looking people can get. But one this is for sure, ignorant, ugly fat or not, I did intend to be the best and the most loving Aunt that I can be. And that is about I'll say concerning this. Prehaps I need to stick with other ignorant virginal Unmarried singles too? Who really knows. Thanks again for posting..... :) ~ Simplegurl ~

Well you certainly do have some insight. And I have and do get ut and about, although I could get out much more often, but usually I try to find people who are more like me via online, then anything eles, because I'm really not very good at meeting new people. But that has a lot to do with the fear of how someone will see me as being Not perfect enough (which I'm by far just the oppisite...) & mainly due to the lack of understand people as a whole. And yeah I have met a few people online, but even then it just doesn't seem to work out. Maybe I'm asking too much from people and maybe I just relaly don't know how to actual.y read people or thier body language, I really just don't know. But I also do like to go to the movie theaters and out to the mall sometimes with my mother and niece, (I actually do enjoy doing things with my nieces and nephews.)here in Lower Michigan, in hopes that maybe just maybe I might find someone for me. Yet so far not much luck. But I'll keep trying. :) ~ Simplegurl ~