Men (boys) Denying Their Children Is Annoying
By vmenard
@vmenard (895)
United States
December 2, 2007 2:47pm CST
When Men (boys) get women pregnant then deny the child, I get annoyed. They call the woman all kinds of names. They weren't calling the girl names when they were trying to get her in bed. These men (boys)don't take responsibility for their own bodies by using protection, then blame the woman.
It's always funny to listen to these men (boys) talk about the women. "Man she sleep with everybody, anybody can be that child daddy."' If you thought she slep twith everybody, why would you sleep with her without protection.
The threat of disease is worth a few minutes of pleasure.
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5 responses
@lyndaj70 (293)
• United States
2 Dec 07
Protection goes both ways: Let's be frank here, when a girl gets pregnant, who really pays: the girl! The guy ALWAYS gets off scott free!
So if the girl doesn't want to risk getting pregnant, either she needs see to her own protection by using birth control, or she needs to keep her pants on. But she has no right to scream foul if she's up and left on her own: no man will buy the cow when he gets the milk for free! I've been there!
@vmenard (895)
• United States
2 Dec 07
I'm not even talking about protection from the boys standpoint and pregnancy, I'm talking about HIV and Aids.
The girl getting pregnant could be the least of his worries.
I have two boys and will tell them and hope they listen, that they need to use protection for their own safety.
@joey_matthews (8354)
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3 Dec 07
I agree with most of what you said and those who do it have no shame, although it's not just the guys fault. The women needs to respect her own body and could use protection for herself and even going as far as saying NO..
~joey
@eachen2002 (889)
• United States
3 Dec 07
Mine didn't call me names,He just disappeared.My child has never met him.I don't think she proably ever will.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
3 Dec 07
I completly agree with you. It is such an old story and so sad as it is the kids that hurt because of it. Kids need both parents to work together to raise them even if the parents live in different households. I really don't feel sorry for anyone who does not use protection (other than the kids they produce) with the diseases and all.
@toni30 (42)
• United States
3 Dec 07
I think it is just a cop out. These men need to step up to the plate and take care of the kids. They are just as responsible as the women when it comes to making a baby, so when these baby daddies,call the women they chose to lay up with names, it just makes them look that much worse.
