Will you change?

I get rid of smoking for my girlfriend eventhough i do not want to do so.

i think changing ur behvaiour i mean moulding the behaviour in a relationship is necessary to be in relationship it helps the relation to work smooothly...but if the person is askin to change ur personality thn ask him/her to lov u as ur n not by changin ur personlity...bcz wen u lov someone u tend to lov the person wid all the flaws n good qualities in the person...so changing the person completely changes ur person whom they lov

It would all depend on what he was asking of me or wanting me to change. The way I figure is, he knew how I was and what type of personality I had before we moved in together, we've been together only 2 1/2 years, so yes we still discover new things about each other. But I don't think he would ever ask me to change the basic way I am, nor would I ask him to change one single thing about him. We accepted each other for who we were, and it's the main reason we are so good together. And there were some minor differences after all I was raised in the South and he is a born Yankee, lol. But, the North and South can live together well.

I think when you ask your partner to change something about themselves, you are in actuality changing the person you fell in love with. For instance, you have short hair when you and your boyfriend first met. Now he asks you to let it grow, so you do. Now we all know there is so much more you can do with long hair than you can with short hair, so now you are spending more time on your hair. Pretty soon he wants to know why you spend more time on your hair. Next he begins to feel you might be getting pretty for someone else and jealousy sets in. Before you know it you are fighting all the time and can't understand why. I think when people ask their partners to change they eventually fall out of love with them because they are not the same person anymore.

my choice is say yes.i love the girl,i wanna do everything 2 make her happy,2 be with her.so i will try my best to change.

no..icant chnge it unless until i get affected or i dont like that habit...

it depends what does he wants me to change. if it is a bad habit for example like smoking then i would change it. but if it is just a petty thing then i would not. as karen capenter sang.... you got to love me for what i am

if this is the only way not to ruin our relationship, y not.... if i really can't change it, at least he saw that i did really tried my best and to show him that i do really love him..... :D..tc

if it is for better, why not. :)

I wouldn't change because my girlfriend told me too but if she told me that she didn't like something about me I would do my best to change that thing just to make her happy. I love seeing my girlfriend happy and it takes so little.