Would you check your spouse's phone Messages?
By Nic
@academic2 (7000)
Uganda
December 4, 2007 5:32am CST
The Mobile phone is a good technology but it has also caused a lot of domestic misunderstanding in families. A man recently beat up his wife to near death in my town because he found a suspicious message in her phone. Would you check your Spouse's phone for messages,recieved calls and dialed numbers?
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6 responses
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
4 Dec 07
I do check it only because my husband never does (I dont even think he knows how to). A lot of times I will send a sms to tell him to get something but he doesnt as he never checks his sms. Somethimes the phone is full and it beeps and he will bring it to me to empty them. (he works for an nursing agency and they send sms few times a day).
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
4 Dec 07
I can see that you have a hubby that is all yours, firstly, he knows nothing funny is in his message counter and you yourself know the messages there are either yours, or business messages- would you like to find sometime and teach him to save you the bother of reading and opening the message counter for him all the time?
@violeta_va (4831)
• Australia
4 Dec 07
I have tried but he is like aha aha and next time he is like oh what have I done I pressed delite (he hates his mobile and this one is totally oposite to the one he had before). Oh he well say why bother checking them its not like its important.
@devenpintu (122)
• India
4 Dec 07
Hi, actually i dont any wife but i dont want to base my trust on these little things like mobile phone check,she has his own life and prior to marriage she can have friends who send unlike messages and i belive in my partner attitude then these smmal things would not worry me.
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
4 Dec 07
You ae truely liberated man who runs the family with absolute trust-keep that spirit devenpintu,,your marriage will run by without stress!
@moneyandgc (3428)
• United States
5 Dec 07
I do not check my husband's phone messages, emails or anything else. He gives me the same privacy. I know the passwords to his accounts and he knows mine. Neither one of us feel like we have to check up on the other.
I was insecure like that once a long time ago and all it did was make us both miserable.
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
4 Dec 07
You said it all, what is a marriage without trust? thanks for your response!
