Blind dates?

well just try it for once! i mean at least they can see for themselves if they have chemistry even if you said that "she in not his type!" Sometimes people end up with someone who isnt thier type at all. Maybe you could suggest a friendly blind date so as your friend wouldnt expect too much! ^-^

its fun.. its adventure... which guy do u think won't enjoy meeting a nice stranger

I think it would be fun, just do it like double date style! They might not have anything in common, but you know the old saying goes... Oppisites Attract! It might not work out for a relationship, but it might be a fun night out for you all. EVEN your hubby!! Maybe you will have to be SNEAKY about it, and call it a GET TOGETHER, where you are going out with your girlfriend, and he's going out with his guy friend, but you're all going out together! lol. Oh us women :P

lol why dont you all go out as FRIENDS. Classifying it as a date puts the pressure on the both of them. That way if its just a friends thing..it gives them time to talk, get to know eachother and then see if theres a possible connection. If its a date right off the bat they may feel awkward cuase they feel as if there is pressure for them to find a spark or connection.

Hallo Friend, I think it would not be a blind date because your friend has already seen your hubby's best friend and is already interested in him but it is blind to the man if he hasn't seen the lady. Ok now can your hubby explain the reason why he is saying no to the match making? Another thing, i think you should invite the two people into your house without telling them what to expect, just a friendly invitation maybe for dinner, talk general talk, introduce them to each other not as prospective mates but as your friends. After two or three meetings between the four of you then you can set your hubby to ask his friend what he feels about your friend. If the man says he likes her then you can arrange for another get together like maybe a picnic, then leave them alone and from there now they are grown ups, if they feel for each other then the better. But dont innitiate anything between them. Let them fall for each other on their own without you playing agent so that if anything happens between them they wont blame any of you. Make sure you do not jeopardise your friendship in the process.

Sure! Opposites attract i barely have anything in common with my gf and we live together over a year. but its up to your hubby now...his friend..his rules lol

You're not wasting his time. People love eachother differently. Love isn't a one-size-fits-all with people. If you love him, but aren't in love with him, this is all the more reason to continue to stay with him, and even to tell him that you do love him. Being in love with someone doesn't normally last forever, the excitement goes away eventually, but it doesn't mean that you stop loving them. If you love him, tell him, it's okay to do so. His love for you will also be different and be conveyed to you differently from the way you feel and convey it to him. I love my husband differently from the way he loves me. This is so with everyone. It is not a one-size-fits-all. It's whatever works for a couple. Do what comes naturally and the rest will fall into place. Good luck to you and your man. Cheers.