Are "special features" complicating our lives? Do you know your phone number?
By coffeebreak
@coffeebreak (17798)
United States
December 5, 2007 8:39am CST
I realized yesterday that I don't know my daughters phone number. I call her often, but use the program number thing on my cell (That she got for me), you know where you assign a number to a phone contact. She is number 2, son number 3 and so on. I press 2 to call her. I can only call her from my cell casue I don't know the phone number to dial it on my phone phone! Problem is that I dont' get reception in my apt unless I go outside, so anytime I want to take I have to stand outside.
Next problem is that if I am out anywhere and don't have me cell or need to use another phone to call her or someone to call her to help me I can't tell them "press 2 for my daughter" - but I can't tell them the number as I don't know it, so I couldn't get any help! Could cause a lot of problem if I can't call anyone for help! What if the battery dies on the cell and you can't call for help or anything. Speed dial on a landline is the same problem. Question is: are we to dependent on "features" these days? Are we letting machines do to much of our thinking? Could you "take care of business" if you lost your "special features"?
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@my52cents (569)
• United States
5 Dec 07
I don't know my kids' phone numbers, either. I mostly use my land line phone and, actually, I have to scroll down the stored phone numbers to get to my kids' numbers when I call them. I don't even have them set up on speed dial anymore. Not sure why, either. I think I'd better find my phone instructions and get that set up. Anyway, I don't know their numbers so I scroll to their name and press "call." Guess that's easier than dialing the long phone number. Of course "dialing" isn't the right word anymore, is it? (Press "1" if I'm right, "2" if I'm wrong.)
Yes, I could take care of phone business without the fancy features, but I sure couldn't take care of much other business as I do as much as possible online. I'll dial eleven numbers to call my kids, and I'll even memorize them if I have to, just don't take away my computer and my internet connection!
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
6 Dec 07
I don't even know how speed dial works on my land line. I just prefer dialing. Or maybe that is just part of me that refuses to come into the 21st century! Most of me is still back there! Not sure I want it all in this century!
Funny you should say about "dial" or "press". my52cents. I had an old phone that i sold on Ebay - it had been in my family since at least about the time I was in 3rd grade as that is when I remember it being in the house and we weren't allowed to use it - mid 1960's. It was a rotary dial with a huge handset, real clanky thing. But it was in our house and used ever houe we lived in and that was quite a few! My sister took it once she moved out and it went back and forth between her and mom and I finally ended up wi it when she moved and didn't want it, so I sold it on ebay for $69! Point of this was, it still worked! So I plugged it in for my 6 yo GD and told her this is how I used to talk on the phone when I was your age. I showed her how to DIAL it and she thought that was the most funnest thing ever! It rang with a loud "clank" kind of ring (do phones ring with those anymore or is it always a song!?) She thought that was so neat that it rang back! and to hold that big clunky thing to her ear and hold it with her shoulder - so much easier than those little cell phones, she said! She just loved calling people on that phone! But now, my 18 mo GD, won't play with anything BUT a cell phone! I have an old one and I let her have it to play with and she will, but she refuses to talk to anyone on my hose land line phone - to big I guess! Oh, for the years of the past to have fun with!
@my52cents (569)
• United States
6 Dec 07
Thing about the old "technology" - it was built to last. How long does a typical cell phone last? Seems my kids replace theirs pretty often. Of course I know the technology changes, and maybe throwing the things around doesn't help any, but I definitely believe that gadgets and appliances are rarely built to last these days. That old dial phone probably will last forever!
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@lilybug (21107)
• United States
5 Dec 07
I realized what a problem this was for my son last year. He was 6 at the time. He knew to call me from my sisters cell phone he had to hold down the number 3, so when asked what my phone number was his answer was 3. I have a lot of numbers memorized even though they are programmed into my phone. On my home phone I sometimes still dial the number even though it is programmed. There are some people I would not be able to call without my cell phone though, and I don't have them written down anywhere either.
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@my52cents (569)
• United States
5 Dec 07
That's a cute story about your son, lilybug! Somehow I expect most parents have a similar story about their children these days.
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@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
6 Dec 07
I always dial them - except my daughters. Everyone else's I know. Although, I did know hers until she changed it a few months ago - just been to stresses to bother to learn it! But I do teach my home phone number to my GD - she doesn't know her own and not particularily a big deal - no one is ever at home anyway! But I always am!
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
5 Dec 07
This can be a problem! If the power is out, I can't heat food, run the dishwasher, or even sew anymore. Bummer! Very occasionally, I leave the house on a short trip without my pocket computer. Ackkk! Not a good idea. Then I am reaching for it every other minute. Do you know I have a spare at home to back up the information on my PDA because my live is in there. Thanks for reminding me. I need to do a back up now!
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@disassembled (52)
• United States
5 Dec 07
I know I probably couldn't do math if I didn't have a calculator at hand! But I had the same cell phone problem when I moved to Europe for a little while. I didn't know my boyfriend's phone number and as much as I text and call him, I was shocked. I know it now by heart but I was shocked I relied so much on just using my name phone book to find him. It is scary to think about how much I rely on technology to just do everything for me.
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@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
6 Dec 07
Scary to think how much we are dependent on technology in so many ways! have a power outage nad there goes you landline nad your PC... then what!??!?!
@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
5 Dec 07
Boy, and I thought I was the only one that doesn't know the number by heart. When I use my landline I have to look up the number on my cell phone in my phonebook. I just did this the other day when I was phoning my son. I don't use speed dial but I do look up in my phone book for the number on my cell phone. I have voice activation on my cell phone instead of using speed dial. I just say their name and the cell phone calls it. I don't use it too often though, because it sometimes dials someone elses number.
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@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
6 Dec 07
Aahhhh, the pit falls of technology! And what if you use that voice caller thing-a-ma-jig while you have a cold - it mightnot recognize your voice!!!!!
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
6 Dec 07
I do! i do! I do keep a personal phone directory! Actualy 2 one is in a large daytimer nad one a little address book at my desk)
@ctrymuziklvr (11057)
• United States
5 Dec 07
I think it's sad that like you I can't remember my kids' phone numbers. The only one I can remember is my mothers and I thank God for that because it's important that I don't have to waste time finding it when I'm calling her. Since I only use my cell phone for emergencies and don't always have it on me I'm really in trouble if I'm out and need to call someone because that's where all my important numbers are. I guess I need to change that don't I?
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
6 Dec 07
Remember those little address booklet thingys we all used to carry in our purses - we were lost without them!
@moneyandgc (3428)
• United States
5 Dec 07
When I had a landline I knew the phone number to it. I have no idea what my cell phone number is though. I don't know my husbands cell number either.
I do know my parents house number and my dad's cell phone number. I know all the numbers in my ex-husband's household due to sharing my children.
Every other number, I am dependent upon my cell phone to get it.
When I stopped using a cell phone for a little while I memorized my husband's number, but I have since forgotten it.
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