use to love her maybee i still do

hey man I feel you on this subject. I dated a guy for 6 years and he was my first love, my first everything. i broke it off and ended up finding someone else who I have a child with now. We are also married. I can't get my ex out of my head either but I know that things happened for a reason. It's normal to still have feelings or even second thoughts about an ex love but you need to think of your family now. They don't deserve for you to leave them and go back to your ex. Remember, it didnt work for a reason so maybe it wasn't meant to be.

hmm.. i think you are not able to get over your ex GF. But now you have got a kid with some one else. If you behave so, they are going to feel bad.Also think of your son who will never take this in good way as he grows up. Are you not hurting your current GF? When she is happy with someone, you leave behind ur past GF.

The very first thing that we have to learn with everything that happen to us in order to move on is ACCEPTANCE. The moment that we learn to accept... we will see the lessons clearly. We will understand why certain things have to happen. There are memories that is worth keeping but not worth remembering... why? because sometimes it will only magnify our present pain. Please visit my blog www.mall-of-earnings.blogspot.com you will find lots of INSPIRATIONAL quotes there... I hope it could help you in a way.

You should think more about your kid (no offense, i bet you are probably a good parent) but, think about his happiness, i mean, if he sees you sad, he knows. He can be a baby but he knows. You should forget your past, what is there is because it belongs there. If you have fights, is because you have fights and you hate it. If you don't have fights, is because you have fights and you hate it. I am not saying what i wrote is for you, but there are many people in this situation. They don't know what they want! For example, if you knew what you wanted (you really knew), you would see this family like something with future, with proud, respect and you would feel gratefull for the family you have now. You say, you don't fight with your current girlfriend. And you said with the other girl, you had some fights, and you loved it.. Well, i can say you one thing: you didn't loved the fights, you loved when they were over, when you made up, stuff like that. And she probably surpassed what you had, but why don't you talk with her about it. Tell her that sometimes she seems like she wanted you again, the way she talks, means that. If you don't talk with her, it means you are afraid of what she can think and answer. If you are afraid its because you don't think what you say is true "... sometimes when we do get a chance to talk i think that she misses me as well and she wished that she could take it back...". To be honest with you, when someone thinks too much, or when is in this kind of situation, the person has the need to say that is the other person that wants it. For example, you say she might want, but its probably your mind that says it to you "i want her to want me again", so you just listen that. This can be more complicated than what people think. Maybe you don't realise, maybe i am the one wrong, only you can distinguish what is true (sometimes is difficult for us to see that). In that moment you should ask help. You can be or, at least, pretend that you are a "tuff" guy, but even tuff guys need help. Some friend to talk, some psychologist. You can talk with her/him, and they know what is really going on. They study, they probably had some cases similar to yours. They study your mind, what you think, and that, sometimes helps someone to understand what they are really feeling. This is, really, my opinion, i am sorry if i bother you with something and if you think i was impolite. Try not to think too much on her, try to focus in your current family, they need you more than she (your ex) does. Good luck :)