I really need some advice!!

How old is your son? It sounds like he's relitively mature & if thats the case drop him off. If nothing else her parents will show him how NOT to act.

Its sounds like your son has a good grip on the sisutation and has the right idea, just let go and let God. This is sent with a prayer for you and your son.

Well have they had the dance? Did he go? I hope you let him go. He seems to know what is going on, and seems mature enough to know about consequences. He must think he will be able to handle her behavior. I think she should have spoken with you when you called. Perhaps she knows something you don't? She may have become rebellious, or her grades have dropped. Too bad her head is up her "wallet" to be an adult about this. =o}

Not only is this woman rude but she is also a little nuts and a lot controlling,she wants everything her way.I feel sorry for this poor girl that your son likes.I suppose it would be ok the drop your son at her house,you are mostly doing it for your son anyway.This old "B" probably thinks you will not do it and is hoping you won't, so i would drop him off just to show her that i would,for your sons sake.This woman is so controlling that if she continues to do this she might just end up running her daughter off.I know that these kids are young and not getting married or anything but you can fall in love at their age.I did and i married that boy and we were married 38 years..but he passed away ,but what if this is going to turn into something serious?I mean later on..Is this woman going to continue to rule this girls life?Does this girl approve of her Moms actions? I know that you cannot say anything but pay attention whenever this girl is around,she might be the type to think for herself,and again she might follow in her moms footsteps..Hopefully not, she seems to like your son a lot and has been fighting with her Mom about him,because you know her Mom has done everything to encourage her daughter to stay away from your son, so far it has not worked..A mother should be more interested in her daughters happiness than she is money.She sounds like a woman that wants her daughter to marry wealth, and that does not bring happiness.If i were you i would just do what my son wants and remain positive,and just let the kids work it out.There is no need in trying to make peace with this woman,she thinks shes a cut above,which she isn't but in her mind she is,so i would just sit back and watch this old money hungry woman act out.Your son puts up with her for the girls sake, and as long as he is ok with it, let it go.I know that it is hard for you as a mother for your son to be mistreated but let him be the one to call the shots...I was always afraid to interfer with my childrens decisions because i would be afraid to steer them in the wrong direction.Since your son is a christian he will get the guideance he needs..As he said just leave it in gods hands..

wow, i missed you in mylot, hmm. about that... let's see; if your son says "put it in God's hands", then believe him, have faith in his faith, dont be afraid that that rich woman will mistreat your son, as long as your son has a firm notion on how he should act and what he should do, you shouldnt be afraid of anything, instead be proud that your son is like that, just remind him that whatever happens, no matter what that woman say, take it positively and dont do anything that will make the woman think that your family is nothing or that your son is not worthy of her daughter. and also, as long as the girl loves your son, then its okay.. dont mind that woman, she's just "crazzy".. hehehe n_n

I don't know, it sounds like a bad situation and to protect my son and myself I would probably stay away - it sounds like flirting with disaster to pursue it right now. give it time, they are both so young and do not need to be focused so much on one other person, the temptations are very great. if a few years down the road they find they still want each other's company then perhaps courtship is forthcoming.

It is too bad the mom of this girl will not tell you why she thinks that you are a bad influence on her. It is obvious to me that she wants to break up the friendship. In a way I don't think a 15 year old girl should hang around the same boy twice a week (on school days?) when she lives 45 minutes away. I did not let my boys date exclusively at age 15. I tried to get them into as many group activities as possible and furthered their interests and focused on their career aspirations. At that age they also went solo to the school dances. As far as your son is concerned, there is no harm in driving him to the girl's house and let the nanny take the kids to the dance and bring your son home. Don't expect though that the lady of the house will even speak to you, obviously she does not like you for whatever reason.

Some moms are like that and it is all because they were disciplined when they were young. In this case she is very rude not only to your son but to her own daughter also and i am sure that she(kid) might also be having a hard time dealing with her own mom. We were lucky that our mom was not like that when we were kid and till date, sometimes parents have to be in the shoes of their kids and check out what it feels to be. I think you should let your kids do what he wants and feels like doing.

It isn't usually someone's fault for being rich. usually its just cuz their grandfather ripped off some people or something like that, so not really even their fault. When it makes them snooty so they can't be around people anymore its very very sad though. Help then to spend some of their money maybe. Or just leave them alone and have a barbecue with some normal people instead, its likely to be WAY more fun. No limit of only 2 on drinks, plenty of easy laughter , etc.

In my opinion,as a christian When we face difficulties,first of all we need to pray and ask God to give advice,God will make a way where there seems to be no way,calm down and pray,and listen to God's answer and advice