what to do, as a son, when your dad doesn't want you...

Somehow I feel your pain and as son with father issues I can tell you that you have only two 3 options:the first is don't stop showing him that you are his son. Try to make a good connection with your father's new wife,with her at your side you can ease your path to your father. He made you and he must love you because you are his son. The second option is to stop trying to reach him, but you can still have positive thoughts about him. But this options is already being used by you. The third is the hardest, if he doesn't want to see you as his son than he doesn't deserve your love and attention. Give him the cold shoulder, if you can't inflict in him your love that stop seeing him and avoid him (don't make him a part of your life) otherwise hatred will come, you'll start you hate him and never call him ever again. I'm sorry to say but if all the first 2 options fail then you must throw the thoughts of him away and never come in touch with that man ever again. Your time of becoming a man will come and you must learn to be the best father for your future children. people that don't see you musn't be seen by us. Now i leave to you your choice and make sure what you choose. I tried to see the good side of my dad but even the small parts he made make me HATE him. I don't what this hate to get you to so who must be sure of the choices you make. Your young and you can try over and over again but if it doens't work than hard ways you must take to become the right person that he wasn't meant to be.