How is your relation with your Parents After you Mairrage?
By vkbllm
@vkbllm (474)
India
December 9, 2007 7:22am CST
Is it rocking...? Or is it flop...
Mostly in case of males...?
Please tell me briefly!
Thank You!
4 responses
@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
9 Dec 07
I'm not "officially" married yet, but I practically am. My relationship with my mother is fine. A bit strained at times because my fiance can be a difficult person to handle (not really mean or anything, just painfully shy and completely unaware of everything around him, extremely frustrating).
However on his side, I refuse to ever see or speak to his family. They're horrible, wretched people and I refuse to have them in my life. He still sees and talks to them on occasion because they live near his university, but they're moving across country either right before or right after our wedding, so thankfully, I'll never have to see them again.
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@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
9 Dec 07
It's funny at times, but mostly annoying. It's been VERY hard adjusting, but I think I'm getting the hang of it.
@marriedman111399 (1207)
• United States
10 Dec 07
This is a great question. My relationship is ok with my parents but has changed since I got married. I always like to call my parents and see how they are doing but my wife does not like the fact that I am always calling them. We have 3 kids and she says that they should be calling us once in awhile to see how the kids are doing. Now that I am married and have my own family to worry about she says that I have to quit being a mammas boy. I respect my wife and do think they should call us more but then on the other hand I think its ok if I call them once in awhile. I say my relation with my parents is Rocking. Not sure how christmas is going to go this year.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
10 Dec 07
If parents have not made lot of money, if there are no brothers and sisters in big number, parents are looked after very well.
Thaks to our great ancestors, our religion holds the parents in high esteem and we also believe it, so parents of the children are not left to lurch in 99%. There could always be a rotten apple in an apple tree, but compared to most countries in the world, parents in India are highly respected and children do listen. As far as I am concerned, they are living gods for all our family members.
@nkhanna (922)
• India
10 Dec 07
well though mine was a love marriage in which all my family members did not agreed to the marraige.however after seeing me happy with my hubby,they all are happy.for me i think my relation with my parents has more intense after my marriage.the love for me and my hubby has increased a lot.for my ubby as well his relations with his parents are cool.