A or B/c ?
@sojournseeker (1244)
United States
December 10, 2007 9:39pm CST
You have had roughly a dozen dates, you have had endless hours of conversations about each other, you have held hands, you have laughed at or cried to movies together, you have either enjoyed fantastic cooking or burned entrees left and right with one another, you have fallen in love, you have set the date, you have made it past the altar--now you are MARRIED ! Congratulations, but your not ready to start a family so what do you do ?
Abstinence or Birth Control ? Do you two give your relationship the A trip for awhile even as newleyweds OR do you throw the god ole (well bad) birth control methods in ?
I want to know . . .
sharing the light and happy holidays,
Miss Erica Hidvegi, the Enlightenment_Advisor, B.A. Psych/M.A. Transpersonal Studies- Cnslng/Author, Artist, Photographer, Entrepreneur & Freelance extraordinaire
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@sweetcakes (3504)
• United States
12 Dec 07
Hello
Is there a reason you don't want to have any children?
I always thought that was the best timing to have a child.
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@GloomCookieLex (6073)
• United States
12 Dec 07
Most couples want to spend time alone together before they bring in children.
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@sojournseeker (1244)
• United States
17 Dec 07
Agreed that youth within a marriage does request a time for 'getting to know each other as 'husband & wife' before 'mommy n daddy' . . .although even older couples starting a family encourage the 'alone time' without parenting hanging over their head as 'essential' to a solid marriage or relationship . . .
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