there's this person i know...pls help
By lonely_f16
@lonely_f16 (2146)
Philippines
December 11, 2007 3:54am CST
okay so I like him, I have a feeling that he likes me but then he doesn't act about it. I mean he doesn't do anything. he just looks at me frequently. We are not classmates now so we seldom see each other. When the batch groups together, that's the time we see each other. I do not look at him straight in the eye..I just look in the corner of my eyes lol so I can see him. there were many instances which shows that he likes me too like for example, I just passed by and he really looks at me and etc etc. So call it intuition. Despite all these, he doesn't act at all. He tells lies about his feelings too. I mean he hides it. What do I do then?
8 responses
@haroldg_slasher (94)
• Philippines
11 Dec 07
hmnnnnnnnnnn.
i have experienced that before(but it was before and past is past).heheheheh
well i am a guy, so i cant understand the side of the girls. but if i were you, you should not be very confident about what you fell because that guy might take advantage of you and may play bad jokes to you.
if he looks at you some of the time, dont mind it it might be an accident.
but if you are fallin for him, confront him dont wait for others to get him.
if he dont likes you dont worry their are more guys out their...
are enlightened???
heheh doctor love??
nyahahahaha
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@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
12 Dec 07
Well I had crushes back in high school and college. Guess what? I didn't do anything. Why? Because I wasn't ready for a relationship. I wanted to finish school first. I didn't want to spend my parents' money on dates.
That's how it was with me. So maybe this guy of yours does like you, but he's not ready for a relationship. I've given you insight. What you do about it is up to you.
@mgpivy (25)
• China
12 Dec 07
i suggest you must know you love him really.if yes,you should tell him your feeling.he refuse you,you can try to forget him.If he tell you :I love you too.you should be very happy.
But you keep your feeling be hiden in your heert,you are painful.
you speak loudly:I love you.
i believe you can do it.
@cooldude_no1 (883)
• Malaysia
12 Dec 07
take it slow first. . . go through the first phase slowly, i.e. getting to know each other first. That's the most important thing rather than just accepting somebody simply because you like the person. Protect yourself first. Never know the guy is just taking advantage of your feeling.
=D
@milondali07 (334)
• United States
12 Dec 07
I am 17 years old and when I was younger I had that problem a lot. I used tobe very shy but when I got used to having boyfriends, I noticed that they go for girls that show that they're interested a little bit. So what I think you should do is... Whenever you see him look at him and give him a smile. Just give him a friendly smile. Whenever he's looking at you, make eye contact. Let him know you see him looking at him. Give him a look that you know that it's obvious. Since he's not in your class, you have a smaller chance of really talking to him. But you should give him those looks until he comes at you. Give him some time, If he doesn't maybe you should go up to one of his friends and ask them, what's your friend's name? Cause you just wanted to know. Or if you have the guts maybe you should go up to him your self and tell him hi, what's your name and start some conversation with him. :)
Hope that helps!
@signorpetho (379)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 07
Hey hey hey, wait a second.
Don't judge that he was lying about his feelings. It's his feeling not yours, so why can you be so sured that he was lying?
Don't wait for him to act, why don't you act first, try to find out.
If he doesn't have the same feeling with you, go away, find some one that like you too. Don't push, you must have more dignity as a girl, okay?
Good luck
@uhhitsparam (14)
• United States
11 Dec 07
Not sure? Try and ignore him I guess.. I'm a boy lol so I don't have he best idea. But match his ignorance. Let him look at you I guess.. That might be your best bet?