How do u deal with these people!?
By shahmeerx
@shahmeerx (368)
Pakistan
December 11, 2007 4:08am CST
There are some people in the society who want to impos their advic and comment on everyone,these pesons are often wrong but we cannot correct them because they get offended or somehow angered on that comment.The best way i did discover to deal with these people was saying yes to them ,these dominant people often bully others for heir comments or show that the are something superior in knowing everything, have u ever met this kind of person who always wants to import his advice upon you.
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12 responses
@signorpetho (379)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 07
I have friends like this. And met this kinda of people several time.
In almost cases I often argue them and try to give my view about the topic and what he/she talks about. If they're angry, that's his/her problem.
These kind people are very annoying, sometimes they disturb people mind. hehehe They want to be the influence one and very dominant to others. But dominant people not always like that.
When I'm tired to argue or talking or hearing something from them, "SILENCE IS GOLDEN" is working for me or i will say "I won't talk about that, change the topic, or you give nothing from that what i need is ... "
Something like that. Just be sure that you're a freeman and you're free to say your mind, it's just the way that you have to find. How to say it right.
I have a really great book. Try to find a book titled "UNLIMITED POWER" by Antonie Robbins. Read it.
See u around
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@haroldg_slasher (94)
• Philippines
11 Dec 07
hmnnnnnnnnnn.
thats a difficult situation.
but if i will be on your place, iwill just let their comment and ideas to come out(because i am sure they will get tired and they will stop, no just kidding)
i think these people are people that just want to help or want others to listen to their side, but i think this is psychological and we cant do anything about it.
if they were your friend, just let him(because if they will be offended, you may loose one of them)
but if you think they are over(as in too much)
confron them
that you dont like what they are doing.
that was long but i think it could help you,heheheh
nyakssssssss toinks
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@shahmeerx (368)
• Pakistan
11 Dec 07
thats what i do but im tired of doing so....
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@biggerb (2024)
• India
11 Dec 07
I have come across many of this kind.It is terribly annoying.As you say they try to bulldoze you.They would be close friends or family so I have no other go but to simply sit through it.I just give a deaf ear when it becomes too much.I hope you get some suggestions from the others I too can follow that.
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@shahmeerx (368)
• Pakistan
11 Dec 07
i hope it works for me too! i thought i was the only one ,nice to see some one suffering the same way!.
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@eyewitness (1575)
• Netherlands
11 Dec 07
Well i also have colleagues like that so i always say yes and amen and then do things my way.
I'm not bothered with them it can be annoying to others but i just ignore them that's all.
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@lalithasri (81)
• India
11 Dec 07
sorry i have not yet engaged with such type of persons.if i met i will definetly share my feelings with u.
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@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
11 Dec 07
Yes I have encountered people like that. I just stay quiet and let them say whatever they want. They're entitled to their opinion anyway. And there's no point arguing with a person who thinks he/she is always right.
If it gets really irritating I'll walk away. That'll send him/her the message that I couldn't care less about their opinion.
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
12 Dec 07
yeh many of these kinds i meet and get annoyed but i feel at times to tackle them is the idea what you said the other wise things is only possible if you have satmina to fight back and give it abck to them right on thier face with proofs that what they are claiming is wrong and useless.
generally i get this kind of people and they some how argue on things like what ever they have is the best and what i possess is all false some how i hate that.
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
12 Dec 07
Hello,shahmeerx! you will come across many people of the agrassive and imposing nature.they think themselves to be intelligent and informative.this is nothing but their ego make them think so.they will impose to accept their feeling on you and if you protest they will feel offend and get annoyed with you.so it is better to keep away from such people.during my college life i had a quarrel with such a person simply because i did not listen him and i did my work on my own will.since then i avoid to mix with such haughty people.thank you and good luck.
@maggiemoon (487)
• China
12 Dec 07
If he or she is your boss,you can fire him/her;if not ,be quite when they spread their ugly speech.It's known that the best way to those annoying guys is turn a blind eye to them.They say what they wanna say,and you do what you wanna do,after all,they have their citizen right to say,aha...
@shahmeerx (368)
• Pakistan
12 Dec 07
Now this is an alternative approach would you please be a little detailed?thanx =)
@passtravel (66)
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12 Dec 07
i have encounter similar situations.nothing i can do but keep silence.i think it's a reckless approach to impose their ideas to others.
@shahmeerx (368)
• Pakistan
12 Dec 07
It must be ,but the thing is why do we keep silenced all the time ?why dont we correct them when we can? we have the right to speak and we should ,the problem is how?
@jerrytian21 (56)
• China
12 Dec 07
yes,I have met this kind of people before,and I always say yes to theme,but gradually after they have nothing to say they will ask you to say sth, at that time is the best time to speak your own opinion,and you should ask him to comment your words,some time they will follow your advice,sometime will not.
