Almost married

Philippines
December 11, 2007 10:43am CST
Right now, I'm still single and looking for a right guy, a guy who can propose marriage at me. I had a boyfriend, he's leaving in other country, 4 years ago he spent his vacation with our house, we were sweet but we were not compatible in some other aspect but we tried to get married while he having a vacation here. But when we almost there, we encountered some problems, so the wedding was posponed! so he went back to states to fix something and he promised me he'll going back here again to bring the documents that we need... but years past, i don't hear anything from him.
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nmhschic2004
@nmhschic2004 (1238)
• United States
13 Dec 07
Sorry to hear about that. How old are you diva? Im sure you have plenty of time to find a nice guy and settle down. Maybe its for the best that he didnt come back. Maybe something much better will come along. Good luck.
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dreamy1
@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
13 Dec 07
Sorry to hear about that but I think it's safe to say that he's never coming back. I hope you are dating other people. If he really wanted to marry you he would have moved heaven and earth to be with you. Find someone who you can depend on, it's not him. He's probably already found someone and is probably married now. You should do the same and forget about him.
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rsa101
@rsa101 (38148)
• Philippines
13 Dec 07
One thing is that have you tried contacting him in some ways like writing him a letter or calling him? If there's no response then maybe its time to move on. That is the best way to do it.
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lucgeta
@lucgeta (924)
• France
28 Dec 07
The secret is keep in touch even thru the hard moments. The ideal would be for you to contact him to know what happened. Marriage of people of two different countries is usually a bureaucratic hassle, requiring many papers that you never heard about before. If you don't mind the paperwork , you can always get married in the church and take care of the rest latter. Hope there is still a chance.
jrecordman
@jrecordman (11)
• United States
12 Dec 07
hi, well to be honest with you if you havent heard from him in a year or so i think i would move on. you can not live your life waiting for something to happin that might not. life is to short for what ifs.
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