my fiance

WTF is wrong with those homosapiens? i think just think of it aa a trial of your great relationship ok? just think that it could make your relationship stronger and fruitful... well goodluck and enjoy life to the fullest

Hello Sometimes people are going to disagree with your decisions,and it may hurt you. but you have to go on your own gut feelings is this man right for you. if he is abusive towards you or disrespect you i can see why your family don't want him in your life, but if none of this is the case.and you are happy. then so be it.

Awwwwww, that's too bad that people are doing that. As to why they're doing that, one can only guess... Since I have no clue how old you are, maybe they think you're too young. If you're just out of high school, or college age, there are a lot of statistics to back up that most marriages that young don't work out in the long term. Another reason might be that they are seeing something in him that you are not seeing for yourself. (The phrase 'love is blind' comes to mind.) Maybe they don't think he treats you with respect, or that they've caught him in lies somehow. Maybe they think he's not responsible: you know, not keeping jobs, recklessly spending money, or drinking/partying too much. Either they are seeing something in him that you're not seeing because love is blinding you, or maybe they're just not in tune with what makes you happy. Although, I can't imagine people not wanting you to be happy, so, there must be something more to it than meets the eye. Girlfriends/friends, sometimes act out of jealousy, but not so (most of the time) for family members. When it's 'everybody', then you owe it to yourself to ask them their thoughts behind their actions. Open it up to discussion, and at least you will know where they are coming from... (Just a thought, hope it helps some:-)