Do you open letter not your own???

at our house we always open each others mail. We have done this for many years.

I respect Privacy and admire them who think like me.I never open others letters.

I suppose it depends on what the letter is or who its from. If its the bank statments or a utility bill the I open it. If its something from his work I'll either give it to him or ask him if he wants me to just read it and tell him what it's about. Most times though I open all the mail unless he checks the mail before I do then he opens it all.

Of course not,no matter what conditions I am in I think there is no way that we can open other's letters without their allowance,even though they allow me to open the letters of their's I am sure I will not open them..

Never! I just couldn't bring myself to do that. Even if the water or phone bill comes addressed to my wife, I'd leave it to her to open. To me its an issue of trust and respect.

or me opening other people"s letter irespective of your relationship or closeness to them is wrong and i dont do it as a rule.i dont think its fine especially when a man and a woman are in a relationship you tend to see some things that will get you upset

I have never done that.The advice which was given to me in the school still stick to me.

No ! I will never ever do this thing in my whole life. Nobody should open others letters as the letters are not belonging to them. It is not good to open or read others letters. Every person deserves privacy and if you are breaking someone's privacy then it definately is a offensive job. No one should ever try to break privacy of others, even if they are your near and dear one's.

it si strict no no for me to. i never open letters not meant for me. I do not want to intrude into the privacy of others.

No, I always wait for the person to read their own letters.

I never open letter from my family.Except when it happens by accident or when those are for my brother it depends if it has to do with financial stuff because i'm doing his account.But when i know it's personal i will not open it. And he trust me in that.

we never really get personal letters but i do open his bank statements and bills b4 he gets home sometimes

unless the letter is address to both me and my husband, i don't open letters of others. if it's utility bills, then it's just fine with me. and like you i feel angry when somebody open my personal letters. i believed it's a private matter. out of respect and courtesy we shouldn't open personal letters of other people even if these people are close members of family like our children, husband, parents, etc. and we should teach our children this one good manner and respect.

Never! Never! Never! I just couldn't do it. Even when the power or phone bill comes, addressed to my wife, I'll wait for her to open it. It's all about curtousy and respect!

However we do have the rule in our house when the door is shut u knock and get permission to enter the bedroom.

No, i think that is not polite, because i don´t want to lose my privacity. i respect the privacity and i expect that the other family members do it too.

I don't open letter unless its mine. Even if the owner of the letter says open it and read it loud for me. I dont open it. I don't want to interfere in person's privacy. Even if it's a bill. I myself gets angry if my mail is opened. And it always happens... sometimes it doesn't but most of the times I recieved my mails open. Upsetting it is on why people do it.

I'm not above opening it. Lol He doesn't really get mail anyways and if he ever did get a letter from some one I didn't recognize yeah I would open it. But if it was from his mom or some one in his family or some one I knew than no.

I definitely agree with you... even when somebody called my loveone's cellphone i won't answer it coz her private belonging... i think that's really a rule when a door is closed you must knock first before entering...

My boyfriend and his brother always had little problems every little once in a while. They didn't live with their mother. His brother and his girlfriend in one room, My boyfriend had his own room, and their 23 year old sister was in the other room. Well, my boyfriend got sick of dealing with everyone because their mom would pay the rent for them supposably but she told my boyfriend that rent was $500, which was a bunch of crap. He paid $500 a month knowing his mom was robbing him and he didn't make much. He was only 19 but he got a lot of mail. No one opened his mail. He didn't have that problem until he moved out the place about 3-4 months ago. Now his brother throws his mail on the front porch for him to come get it. Money comes in the mail to his house, they open it, we find out it's missing. We can't have his adress changed to where he's living at now. But We had to get the mail held. It's a felony to do some stuff like that. But you're not gonna getyour own brother arrested. They ended up fighting and his brother got his butt whopped but hey, who are you to open the man's mail? I mean, I've been his girl for about 3 years, when I'm at his house and I see a card from grandma or whatever I don't open it. Are you serious? I mean everyone is entitled to their own privacy. Everyone does their moments of time to themselves. No, It is more than not having good manners. When it comes to those situations, you have to lay the strong hand down and say how you feel and how angry you have become at this person. Take whatever measures you need to take to have your privacy. And make sure no one else will get in your way of having that!