Selling them short

Yes, and I think it is because I am insecure. Not just about how he will react to something, but about how I think he Should react. I get on him for spending money sometimes, then I spend money, and worry he will be mad. He always says no big deal. He doesn't get mad about it. But I expect him to because I think he should. By the way, I am glad to hear that he didn't have a problem with your son liking Dora. Children shouldn't have gender roles pushed on them, your son is lucky that both you and your husband don't do that.

Sometimes, yes. But for the most part I have learned to only fuss about things of great importance. As far as what we do, we normally always talk about things before we make dicissions, well, major ones anyone.

Honestly I think I give my husband too much credit. At least around complete strangers. Really he's much worse than I say but I find he's better than most so I live with the corks.

I really don't think that I do at least I hope I don't my husband is a very giving man and has a heart made of gold he takes life as it is and when he does get upset his over it easy enough so I don't feel that I sell him short. Have a great day!

I have to agree with you on this one. I get to the point where I think I've really had enough, than he does something really nice and I can't believe that I thought I really was done. Like yesterday, I was gone most of the morning with our son to school and when I got home he had addressed all the christmas card all by himself. Wow! Go ahead and vent we all need it too!