you love him??

First of all, love isn't just anything. Love is special. If you loved the guy you were with, I don't think you would have any doubts about him. This other guy seems like a new guy so I really don't think that you Love him. I have had about 7-8 boyfriends in the past, two of them I thought that I was in Love with. Turns out, when we broke up I was devastated. I mean I was like damn, I love him, I'll never love again. Well, it wasn't really like that at all. I didn't love him, he was sweet, he was nice, he was like a dream. It turned out that he went to jail for something stupid. He was in there for like 21 days. While he was gone, like two days later I moved onto someone else and I thought I was in love then. HA! He was in love with me, I was in love with him. I was so sprung I did stuff I never did before. I baked him cookies, he would come by my house and make him lunch before work. And then he went to New York for about 2 months and during those two months we talked on the phone everyday. He was like damn I miss you bla bla bla. And THEN after a month we started fighting, he was getting jealous, controlling. My car broke down and my friend came with her friend who was a guy and ever since that night I broke up with my other bf lol. I'm still with him now, and we've been together for about 3 years. But I knew I fell in love with him because I came to really know him and we had so many experiences together. We went through a lot of stuff. And I think that when you're with someone, you really know that you love them because you go through good times and bad times together and you learn more about each other. The more situations you go through the more you draw apart or draw closer. And there's been other guys that try to get with me after him but I never had a thought that I wanted to be with them. If you're really confused maybe you should be single for a while. And talk to them both, take it slow, chill with them. But if you are doubting your boyfriend then maybe you shouldn't be with him anymore. Do you really think you two have established the connection that you want?