why everything is going wrong for me?

@subha12 (18441)
India
December 12, 2007 1:08am CST
it seems for few months everything i sgoing wrong at my end. mainly the things related to my career. I was not getting onsite for long.I told my managers and all about this.they promised but it never happened.Earlier twice it was told and it got cancelled. This time I was sure to visit . All the papers were initiated , all arrangements were made. Just 3 days before journey mine got cancellled and all other 2 people's journey was ok as planned. Now I think my managers are doing so much thing at my back that I can't imagine.Why all these bad things happen to me? What was wrong? I have never cheated anybody or have anything wrong. Instaed I took the initiative for all we were supposed to travel for travel request, accomodation, ticket and all. Am I simply Born Unlucky? Or should I be more cunning?
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9 responses
@balasri (26537)
• India
12 Dec 07
It is a good sign of something good that is going to happen to you.life is just a cycle of ups and downs.Wait and see you are going to thank me profusely.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
12 Dec 07
lets hope i get a chance to thank you for this matter.
@balasri (26537)
• India
12 Dec 07
You will.Don't despair.Keep your good work.
• India
28 Jan 08
no one is unlucky its happens with everyone ders no one in the world who is happy forever..... if u c any big starsi.e celebrities they all have ups and downs in there life ........ its a part of ur life....
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
12 Dec 07
we all go through a series of misfortunes once in a while. but look at what happens, everything still turns out nicely in the end. i'm sure that what's happening to you are all a test to your patience, endurance, and faith. ^__^ i think you should just continue what you are doing, continue doing you're best and when it comes to the point that you think you are really not happy anymore with your job, then quit. if you think that you have given enough chance to your managers, to yourself, and to the company, and nothing was changed with that chance, then i think its time for you to think about your own self-development and growth in another work. just look at the bright side, that test would make you stronger to face life challenges, challenges at work specifically and it will help you overcome them. ^__^ "everything will be alright in the end."
@shak143 (1280)
• India
12 Dec 07
why you are thinking like that.you are not unlucky there are so many in this world who are not having job and some are there with jobs and no salary then what you say about them.if not know may be in future you will a get a chance to see entire world be positive what ever happens is for our sake only.be happy.
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
12 Dec 07
Well, if you are, I am your twin! Nothing ever goes right for me! I try so hard, but still, I am Murphy's model for his "anything that can go wrong, will" law. Right down to being in a hurry and the shoe string snaps as I tie my shoes!
• India
13 Dec 07
it is very sad. i think all will be ok after some time. so best of luck to you.
• India
12 Dec 07
It is very difficult to bear such situation in life,but we have to face it with courage and determination.It is not totally in our hand to control the day to day activities and i believe that there is some mysterious force controlling all our day to day activities.If you are believing in God,then you can say God is behind this.I firmly believe that,every incident happing in our life is because of poorva janma karma.We cannot change it.But up to some extend we can alter it by hard work and proper planning.
@ravibabli (1557)
• India
12 Dec 07
Mylot - ..
Dear it's a human nature so dont be disapponted and try again to make best in your life.
• Philippines
12 Dec 07
Hello Subha! You have to be optimistic at all time. Just think that everything is happening for a reason. Have faith that there's a rainbow after the rain.