A feeling to be compared to....

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Eow guyz.....I just need ur advice and somehow some engouraging statements....This is the situation I am in. I have a cousin who is my batchmate and even a very close cousin. We seems to be like twins since we are about two(2) days alike in our birth. We grew up as neighbors, classmates and eventually parted our ways. She ended up to be in a school w/c is not that competitive while I was in a school w/c is competitive enough. And, w/ that she was always the top one in that school. And, I was not on the other hand. Then, one day during graduation day. The whole family relatives knew that she will be ga=raduating as a Valedictorian, and on my part, I will be graduating as an honorable mention. That was the start of the great comparison that the whole family relative started. I felt I was degraded. I wanted rto explain. I wanted to say that we are never the same. Everyone is unique. That, we don't belong in the same school and therefore, they don't heve the irtight to criticize me. But what else can I do??? That's what they believe in....