should college students be encouraged to marry in school?

@xkwind (12)
December 12, 2007 4:36am CST
nowadays, more and more people spend more time in school. The question is most of them can be married on law, and some colleges also aggree stuedents to marry. but som people say that the students can't earn enough money to suport a family. so the students should't be encouraged to marry in school even permited by law. And some people say making a family can make most college students know what is the resposibilty. so my frieds what is your apinion, and what is your point on love in school?
10 responses
• China
17 Dec 07
In my opinion,If I have the idea then nobody can make me stop.I will make living with my wife.we can learn from the life,help each other and go ahead.
@xkwind (12)
21 Dec 07
heavenzh66, good luck. send my best wishes to u!!:)I find that I am not alone.
• United States
13 Dec 07
I think getting married is great if you know for sure that person will always be there for you and love you. I'm 28, been dating this guy for 7 years, and i'm still in school. After 7 years, i'm pretty sure this is who i want to spend my golden years with, however, i'm just not financially stable right now. I think it's better to get your career out of the way and then get married. Or get married but don't have kids until you're done with school. It's hard to balance two things and have the best of both worlds.
@xkwind (12)
21 Dec 07
:)thanks for respons. good luck!
@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
13 Dec 07
only if they went there for an MRS. Degree it worked out ok for my mom
@xkwind (12)
21 Dec 07
your mom? u mean your marrige diside on your mom?
@shak143 (1280)
• India
13 Dec 07
i dont think so by marriage one knows what responsibillites are.it completely depend on how he/she is looking this world.and allowing marriages in school is not tolerable.they are not mature enouf to handle both college and familly it will be difficult to manage both.
@xkwind (12)
21 Dec 07
but for a doctor candidate student. it seems not so difficult
@nissmon (40)
• India
13 Dec 07
According to me,its not good. .they don't know about the life and how can be managed the life.some people get married at thier schooltimes for taking it as a credit or their deep love to partner.but after some years,there wil be misunderstanding between them and that's the bad thing about love marriage.here they can marry with the support of law,but. they are not at all matured in every sense and sometimes they cannot overcome the problems facing in life due to their unmaturity.after getting matured,they know about the reponsibilities to be done in life.
@xkwind (12)
21 Dec 07
nissmon, I guess u have got married. am I right?:)thanks for your advise.
12 Dec 07
to me,the most important task for a student is to learn,but marriage may distract the attention .besides,a student may be in a awkward position for he is unable to support a family without earning enough money.so college students is not be encouraged to marry when studying.they would be encouraged to marry when have a stable income after graduating from universities.and spouse is usually the right lover in the university.lol
@xkwind (12)
21 Dec 07
passtravel, i get your point. I have a suggetion for u that learning is not all of the youth's life. happy chrismas!!:)
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
13 Dec 07
Lack of focus in education can end up in disaster for the future of students. Marriage is a big responsibility and diverts the mind of students, In my opinion during college this getting married can result in diversion of mind. So first one should finish his/her college and then get married that too after attaining financial freedom from parents by standing on their own feet.
• China
12 Dec 07
Considering the colleges is grown, I think the law of allowing the grown colleges to marry is right, after all, they have the right in law. School must obey law, so school is not error. Considering the actual conditions of colleges, I think school and society shouldn't encourage colleges to marry. I will say marriage and amativeness are two different things!
@xkwind (12)
12 Dec 07
hey,my brother, i have a different point whith u. Maybe i am too romantic.....so your point is the same with rita1234 that love is a thing but marrige is another thing.
@xunyicao (45)
• China
13 Dec 07
I disagree students to marry.Student's primary mission is study,although they can go to get part-time jobs ,but they can't earn enough money to support a family.If studens marry,they will have heavy pressures in their spirits and economies.It can have very big influence to their life if they could not stand.
12 Dec 07
I do not support who marry at college.As we all know ,college is different form society.when you enter the society ,you will be more reality,and many unexpected things will occur.some decision you made seem unmature or even ridiculous. It is a wonder why there are mang spelling mistakes?
@xkwind (12)
12 Dec 07
rita88204,i get your point. thanks first for response to my discussion. in fact, I am also confused with marriage and love. love is also a thing about reality and money? but marriage seems to have rlationship with society, money. so we hope our love is pure, but marriage seems different. so u mean in colleges, the students can love but can not marry? is that your points??