When the love fade away.what should i do?

If you love her so much try to talk to her and ask her why she doesn't wanna be with you any more. You can give her some space and leave her a long for a while because sometimes we spend too much time with a person and we become addicted to that person so we don't distinguish between love and habit. If she doesn't have any particular reason for what she said maybe just few days apart can do miracles for you to but if she has some really good reason, if you are not what she wants you should let her go because we can't make someone stay with if he/she doesn't want that. I was once in your girlfriend's situation and it was very difficult to explain to the other person why I wanted to break up. Sometimes you just wake up one morning and you feel like you need something else and not what you have now. If that's your GF's case you should let her go and maybe she comes back when she realizes you are what she wants.

4 years? that's a long one. Anyway, for me maybe you can try giving her some time alone for her to assess if she really wants to break up with you. Maybe you can also try fixing it and if it really doesn't work, you two should have a serious talk with each other, not fighting, just plain serious talk about your relationship. Whatever happens you should just accept the truth. Good luck

i thought you were a girl...(i am wrong) you've been together for 4 years,and if you have problem,why not put it on the table?four years is not a short time,you've been through many things,why not this time?dont accumulate the problems,that will be terrible. even if she really dont want to be with you,if i were you,i want to know the reason,and since i cant forget about her,i will not just let her go.make yourself clear,i think that is good for you.

My advise is - you may cool off for a while just to give yourselves time and space. Think and ponder on things or on the differences. If there is still love between you perhaps time will be the judge of it. If you really love her then make the first move to patch up things and start all over. If she still loves you I believe there will be no problem- unless there are unreconcilable differences.

Well,if you still love your that girl deeply and can't forget her,i suggest you should win her back.you should do something to win her moved.like bring her to enjoy a movie,have a nice dinner together,etc. Maybe it's an impulsion of your girlfrind's.hope she can back your side oneday.and good luck!

Lots of my friends said to me that will regret discussing for the moment that will regret all my life if not falling in love. Because I don't have experience in love someone excpet my parrents. I think you stay together almost 4 years, and both of you need something fresh,such as new life, new views. so give each other for a little time to relex yourselves.Maybe she will know that you are the best to her. Take easy!

one should not let go there loved ones so easily its the loved ones who make us feel alive we can share our happiness and sorrows with them so i would suggest that you should talk to her give her some time try to correct te prob and four years is a very short time it is said true love trascends through ages

relationship like tat ar valubull keep her maybee maybe sumtime it get rocky yet always be willin to try ta fix it we have to face problem whatever kind it is do our best always try to at least be friends and be there for each other then

I would let her go I know its hard and maybe shes making a mistake but if you push to hard it will push her farther away. you can tlak to her a little and try to understand why it happend when it happend and so on. I'm sorry about whats going on but no matter what happens you will move on with your life and it will become a much better life with or without her. maybe shes not the one maybe there is someoen out there that will mean so much more to you I know thats hard to believe right now but thats how it is. good thing it happend now instead of years down the road when yall were married and had kids. I wish you the best in your dissision and your lifetime and hope it all turns for the better

Four year is a long time but it would be better to break up now than later.If she is unhappy, she needs to have a change.If the two of you are ment to be together, you will get back together, all that might be needed is a little time appart.If you love her you will let her free and she may come back.......

i and my boyfriend stay togther almost 5 years now.I believe distance creats attaction.My boyfriend and i are at different city.When we were in college ,we were only got togother summer or winter vacation.we are now endeavour to get togother at the same city.We always give spaces to each other.If you love her ,you should talk to her ,leave each other temporary,give her sometime to consider.You also must consider where is your problem.

i think you're right both of you just stayed in your relationship too long withouth even thinking waht to do in the future, coz if you do then pretty sure you'd know directly if she really love you or not, I think you can try even once t put it back together am sure she'll ask this question "do you still love me?" then answer honestly don't hesitate ok? so goodluck lucky guy...