relationship break up......?!!!

Indonesia
December 12, 2007 8:36pm CST
Is it fair to break up a relationship and not inform your partner for three days.
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8 responses
asgtswife04
@asgtswife04 (2475)
• United States
13 Dec 07
No, I don't think that is fair to the other person to be left hanging for three days. If it were me, it would be such a shock...one minute thinking everything is fine and then to find out three days later everything is not. Obviously though, if you don't hear from that person for three days, something is up. I think it should be done in person as well. A letter or an email or a text message is such a wimpy way out to me. If you end a relationship you should be man or woman enough to face that person. Just my opinion though. God bless
yefta_aye
@yefta_aye (637)
• Indonesia
13 Dec 07
If she is that cold me is better off without her!btw thanks for your opini
asgtswife04
@asgtswife04 (2475)
• United States
13 Dec 07
this is true. if she couldn't face you, you don't need her and you also need to wonder what your relationship was really worth to her. i'm sorry that this has happened to you, but it only means you have someone else out there that is waiting and will be much better. i believe that everyone has that special someone and maybe you should just sit back and let her come to you. don't go looking because you will never find it. love comes to you. God bless
yefta_aye
@yefta_aye (637)
• Indonesia
16 Dec 07
okey i will try thanks friend
sarahruthbeth22
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
21 Dec 07
I don't understand.To be broken up, you have to inform the person, right?
nmhschic2004
@nmhschic2004 (1238)
• United States
13 Dec 07
No its not fair at all. And i dont know how it could even be considered a breakup if you dont tell the other person. Sorry to hear about that.
jhoana_joey
@jhoana_joey (616)
• Philippines
13 Dec 07
It is not fair. She should be responsible enough to let you know she wants out of the relationship and tell you the reason.
ernie_chantique
@ernie_chantique (189)
• Indonesia
16 Dec 07
wow,,i am so sorry
scoles
@scoles (65)
• Philippines
13 Dec 07
very unfair... even a letter would do i think...
kurtbiewald
@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
13 Dec 07
a gentleman should state his intentions, usually in writing
kurtbiewald
@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
13 Dec 07
I always figure to let people know what their intensions are and where they stand with me if they are honest wiman always states his intentions to a lady, usually in writing