How do you comfort a friend who just lost their online bf

Oye thats really sad to hear!!! but what i practically want to tell her thats its was her mistake!! she should never love some one in internet without seeing or knowing the reality!! you know? internet is a matrix!!here if any element of matrix is missing,we may not be able to solve the equation for ever!!mathematical matrix is more easier!!you can do it by trail n error methods!!what i want say is that,no need to be sad as he was never been your or will never be yours,he is such a bulshit selfish man!only mean for something!!not love!!! just think you have been a deep dream and now your are awaken naturally dream goes out!! why should we be sad for such a dream! its not a real!! if you think!it will be alright!throw away everything related to him! it will be a real dream!! gud luck!! its for her hahaha!! i used you you you!!

I don't wanna read this topic but it's here now. this is so-so sad. am into bf/gf online. and infact he'll be comin next week. We meet almost 4 mos. but unlike the experienced of your friend she didn't see her bf online even in pictures. That is ridiculous. don't like it. I think it's her fault now because she's too rushed into that kind of thing. Wherein she didn't knew what the person looks like. All I can say to her is ....if she made it in the first place why try again to find one...until she'll find the right one for her. Her life doesn't just stopped on that person, besides she didn't see him in person. Let go!

i any of my friend lost thier online bf/gf i would console her/him try to know how deep there relations were and what was the cause of the break up if it was just a time pass then i will tell them to chill out and its ok u'll find somebody else and tell them as you have not seen each other it may have been for good as he may not actaully be what he posses to be

she has other men on the side I think maybe I should list some names? hmmmmmmmmm better not, all the facts are not in yet

I really feel sorry for your friend and I don't know what you think about this but honestly I think people shouldn't hope too much before sending photos. We live in a world that cares for the appearance and as much we would like not to care we do, all of us do. So I'd tell to her that she should try one of those sites or chats where one has to create her/his profile just to avoid this kind of scenes later.I don't think that she is sad only because of this guy but in general maybe that's just another rejection in her life. I think she'd be happier to create her profile and get a few messages from boys because than she'd know they know how she looks so there wouldn't be any surprises at the end. Unfortunately people can be superficial and we can't change the way the world functions but we can protect ourselves and one way of doing it is to put your cards on the table before you include your feelings.

Oh no! I hear it again. I also have not quite the same, but a similar problem: girls looking for adventures find me via ICQ search engine, then make friends with me (normal friends you know, without any love stuff), since I am quite a friendly and easygoing person. After a year or two of chatting they start to behave in a weird way, like to call or to send SMSs up to 3-4 times a day (before we actually happen to meet in real life) and when it finally starts to piss me off, I begin to avoid such an overwhelming attention, and finally I receive the dramatic "you broke my heart". But...I did not mean to break anybody's heart, I just needed friendship, purely platonic relationship, nothing else. You may ask why...simply because I am realistic, I know that I cannot know everything about the girl out there, online, 300 miles away from me. I need to meet her and spend...lets say...a year or at least some months near her to figure out if she is a perfect match for a long-time love relations or not. This makes me think that some girls (and sometimes also boys) out there still do not understand that we are not living in paradise among angels, but on Earth, among human beings. not everything is perfect in here. Just stop dreaming about virtual love, leave a real life as it is. And if you happen to find an understanding person online, take him/her as a pen-friend (you must know this word if you went to school:)), not a boy/girlfriend, then meet a hundred times and then fall in REAL LOVE (not virtual one). Got the idea?-))

she ha sto accept the fact in reality.online realtionships do not mature most of the time. if they have parted as she is heavy, its the fault of that guy. why he assured her? this guy does not deserve her. make her understand.

I dont know what I would say to her! but that is really sad to hear. If she is someone you know in person maybe you could take her out to a bar or someplace where you both could get dressed up and help her make herself up nice, and maybe she will feel better about herself! and even if she doens't meet someone she will feel a little better because she got out of the house and made herself look SEXY :) it sounds silly but i bet it would help her a little. If she isnt' near you location wise, i dunno what to say! I geuss you could suggest she do the same thing with another friend, get all dressed up and go out somewhere nice, and maybe she will meet someone who will apprietiate her for who she is :)

Well, you know the mystery thing was okay, but they should have exchanged pictures from the start, then she would have known that obviously it did matter to him, and it wouldn't have gone on for 3 months. I met a wonderful man online, but about 30 minutes into chatting we were exchanging pics, of us, our kids, the dog, and we talked openly and honestly from the start. We have been together over 2 years now, and it's still going great.

It pretty common for ppl to have infatuation online especially if you don't feel that attractive the first time a supposed guy listens and sweetens you up and continues to do that . I would say to her I'm sorry he wasn't the person that he was on the internet and say your lucky because internet is like blind dates some are bad and some are good -so in a way you had good luck because you find out that the guy you met is a liar and that he didn't play any games with you after you guys met a few of them do that just in hopes to get someone to dtd

Ok. Just comfort your friend. Tell her that there are other guys online who are dying to meet her. And tell her that sometimes relationships online can be quite virtual, thus she needs to really meet real people. :) Anyways, also tell her that probably right now her ex-bf is happy while she is crying. Tell her not to wallow. She can find other guys. :)

thats really sad to hear but the many fishes thing is crap inspite of many fishes in the sea there will only be a few or some times only one fish thats truly interested.and finding that one fish is all about it.theres no need to worry about until you the moment you die and still have not found that fish so cheer her up for me also !!!!!

Hi,there! Well,I do think all the online love should have the day that the two come to see each other and really get along with each other.As what you mentioned in the discussion that the guy met your friend and then never contacted her again.So is that the apperance problem? If so,then he's not the guy worth your friend's love.If one love you only because you have a nice looking,then that's not the real love cause good looking will be gone with the time.Just tell your friends,the guy doesn't worth it.Three months time is not too short,but the love just was gone because of a date.Then you can imagine whether he's very serious.I wish your friend all the best.Have a nice day^_^

Honestly, just tell her that if he couldn't love her for her personality alone, and looks were enough to turn him away, it just wasn't meant to be. He doesn't deserve her, and honestly I'm glad it didn't work out if that is the case. Guys like that don't deserve to be with anyone in my personal opinion. I actually met my current girlfriend(soon to be fiancee ^^) over an online game/chat. We got together in person and she stayed with me for 2 weeks, it was love at first sight. Almost like one of those perfect movies lol. So anyway, what I am trying to say is... It's not that online relations WON'T work, they are just a lot more stressful and harder to get going so to speak. Not to mention a lot more risky. I hope this has in someway helped, not sure if anyone else has given you this same general response (didn't read all of them) but none the less, best of wishes. ~Steve