where's the love??

thats how the world is

We are just the same but in a very different situation. I am also a helpful person when it comes to lending money. It kindda develop in me while I was growing up. I used to remember when I was still in my high school days and even when I was in college that I always have the tendency to forget my money or buy foods in order to feed myself without even realizing that I spend all of my money. That is why I also help other people financially because others had also help me.

You did not do anything wrong, many many people are just like that now. The same thing basically has happened to my wife and myself, we are just used to it now. I think that may a reason why I got into bodybuilding, to take out the anger that builds.

maybe we are in the same situation...^^ in my opinion,to be a real helpful person,you could maintain this view: do what you want to ,donnot hope for too much reward from your friends,just do it silently... I believe one day,your friends will understand you... Good luck...

you have done nothing wrong, its the matter of the fact that you choose the wrong people to look for help towards. this whole situation is probably a blessing in disguise.. its showing you who your real friends truly are. It shows the true colors of the peopel your affiliated with.

maybe they are not your real friends.if you were in trouble ,you real friends would come to you at first.a real friend always stands there waiting for you.

Yes hundred persantage iam agree with your because last weak i stuck up with same situation, i got mad now i realise who is real firend who will help me the correct movement..Even i always help my friends when they needs. So better i thought always family only with me no need to keep friend like that..

you never did anything wrong... its just the type of ppl that you are looking for for help... i know the feeling it has happened to me on more than one occasion and since then i dont ask for help on anything as i dont want to be a burden on someone... mind you it all has to do with friends that i had in the past...