Bad news
By kimeyes
@kimeyes (16)
China
December 14, 2007 3:31am CST
my husband go back to his parents' home.and I stay at home alone.when I am free,I will call him.there are 2 or 3 times in a day.I know that is not so pleasure to him so many times.but I really miss him and feel lonely.Today he told me that he didn't like because it brought too much pressure.It is so strange that I know it's wrong but when he tell me this ,I can't accept.I don't want to call him any more.what's wrong with me ? I take too much care of him?
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4 responses
@wing215656 (219)
• China
14 Dec 07
hi! donot be too wary.some men are mother sick,you may know the fact.they never really leave their mothers,they are like babies never growing up.so,i think if you can take the place of his mother,he will come back to you.you can give more care to him,and make him feel you love him so much.for example,you can learn to cook the same dish as his mother for him,and care more about his family.sometimes,you can say sth to him like his mother.in sum,believe yourself,and do what you think is ok to him and yourself.good luck~you can make it!
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@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
17 Dec 07
Nothing is 'wrong' with you, you just miss your husband which is normal. But perhaps you are a little to needy. You should back off a little and give him some space. If it bugs him when you call so much, stop calling. Force yourself to wait for him to call you. It sounds like he is being immature and he needs to grow up before he'll be able to be a good husband.
@kimeyes (16)
• China
18 Dec 07
Thank you very much.Yesterday I read an article about controlling your motion.It makes me think a lot.when I need someting, I just want to get it immediately.This is because my motion controls me.I need learn to hold on.It's hard to me.but I want to try.No one is perfect.hehe...
@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
15 Dec 07
perhaps each time you feel like calling your husband you can write him a letter..only don't mail it. I have found that writing is a great release for tension. Write the letter exactly how you wouild to him. sign it an put it in an envelope.
@clamarco808 (312)
• United States
14 Dec 07
Nothing's wrong with you. You just need some time to sort things out. I would find someone else that loves & cares for me, not a little boy that has to go run back to mommy & daddy when things go bad.
