He loves me than I do to him
By Cindy405777
@Cindy405777 (300)
China
December 14, 2007 4:37am CST
My boyfriend loves me very much, he treart me well , he work hard for our happy future.....in a word , he nearly is a perfecte man!but i don't know if i love him, at leat, i don't love him as he does it to me! Once , he ask me if i love him, i don't know how to answer him!i need him , because he is a very good guy, and treats me very weel, every time , i company with him ,i feel safe, now i admit , i have treated him as my family ! but , as for love , i really don't know! What should i do ? pls help me , teach me , pls !!!!
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12 responses
@braveheart07 (2601)
• Philippines
30 Dec 07
You should tell it to him that you really don't love him. It's hard to let him expect so much from you. It is important that you have to tell it immediately to him before it's too late. :-)
@fredgame (1260)
• China
15 Dec 07
i think if you really feel safe whenever you're with him and he loves you so much and you don't know if you really love him? then i'll say if you don't love him, you don't allow him waste his time and energy, but if you do, let him feel it and you both will be wonderful partner. you should decide and let it be in time.
if i were you i would love him as much as he does and the result will be one of the joy that you ever experience. good luck.
@nmhschic2004 (1238)
• United States
15 Dec 07
Just give it sometime. Maybe you just havent had enough time to fall in love with him. How long have the two of you been together? And you could tell him that your not ready to tell him that you love him. And maybe your just afraid to share your feelings. Either way i would give it sometime and see what happens. Good luck.
@fanji008 (775)
• China
15 Dec 07
Hi,there! I think it's a very happy thing to have someone who loves you and treats you pretty well.I can tell from what you said that actually you enjoy that pretty much.So if I were you,I would just stick to this relationship and see what's going on.Because sometimes you may be in love with sb,but you haven't realized that yet.Once you lost the one,maybe you can tell that obviously.As you said you need him and you take him as the family member,that means you really wanna be with him.When two lovers get married,then the relationship is not only love but also the family relation.So maybe you can wait and see.Hopefully you'll get the final answer and all the best for you and your bf:)
@bishu_sinha (1457)
• India
14 Dec 07
obiously he will accept your offer and make the best of it. Win his heart over too.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
14 Dec 07
I think you are also in love. But my sayings will not do all. You can think and analyze it yourself.If you think you imagine him at every part of life, then you are definitely in love. Also pls do not continue with him if you do not love him. he may feel bad.
@monty24 (154)
• India
14 Dec 07
Well friend, I think you also love him but you are not so expressive,try to analize yourself if you need him you have to make him understand.Some times when the question arrives for relationship we have to compromise with ourself.If he loves you a lot be free with him try to share everything with him and talk more with him..
@lenok_samara (6)
• Russian Federation
14 Dec 07
Oh, only when YOU feel true love, you feel so happy! If you doubt, soon or later you feel so lonely... Safe,company - it will be enough for 1-2 years, then you may hate him. Imagine,will your fingers tremble, when he look or touch you after 8 years of your life together? If you think not,then no paradize.You`ll be satisfied more or less, but feeling happiness...,oh,it`s another way. You,yorself must love him more, not interest in others,may be crazy, but it`s true love, but not for everybody.
