brother or sister?

Philippines
December 14, 2007 8:07pm CST
In our family i have a one sister and one brother.but we are not very close to each other and i don't know why?may be because they are have they own like and dislikes.but me as a youngest sister i want them to become a close to each other,i always asked my sister to go out with me and my brother also.But my sister don't want to go with me, if my brother is here. thats is my problem because i want to experience to be with them both.but my sister don,t want to go with my brother and i don't know what im going to do?and i always do my best to try to let them go out with me.but it is still not work!so what im going to do?is there anything advice to me to say what im going to do or what IS THE BEST SOLUTION FOR THEM?
3 responses
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
15 Dec 07
It is the sincere and pure love that brings all the family members together all the time. It also depends on kindness, attitude to help each others and many other smaller things that matters. My parental family was quite big 5 brothers and 4 sisters and my eldest sister who is in USA is 62 and when she is here at Bangalore, we have a get together of all the members of the family. Each one of the family is trying to help the other to settle in life, arrange for marriages, help them in buying a house (help financially), participate in festival luncheons. Now all of them married and their children keep visiting other's homes. All of them have one child or two and I feel the number is not sufficient to make merry on important occasion. There will be telephone calls from most of them or their famlies every day. It is a wonderful minhi world for us.
• Philippines
15 Dec 07
your very lucky coz you have a happy and big family, not like me,lol.....i always make them happy its because i love my whole family even my brother and sisterBut i cant understand them why they dont like to get out and have some bonding.maybe because since they are a child they are not close. hahaha by the way thanks for your good response. and i hope that you have a nice day there now.keep in touch and god bless.
@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
15 Dec 07
You're such a sweet youngest sister. Perhaps your brother and sister had some sort of a fight. Give it time. As they mature they will realize the value of family and some day you will be able to spend more quality time with them. Meantime, continue being the sweet angel that you are. You could very well be the "best solution" for them.
• Philippines
16 Dec 07
Really? oh, thanks for your good response,and i hope that someday i will get my brother and sister's attention.i hope that day will come that they are close to each other like i always pray TO GOD.thanks for the response and keep in touch,have a nice day and god bless.
@xunyicao (45)
• China
15 Dec 07
I'm sorry heard that.I really hope this thing does not happened to everybody.For this things ,i haven't good advice for you ,only depend on your diligently.wish you good luck!
• Philippines
16 Dec 07
yeah,and thanks for understanding my feelings and thanks for your response i feel your sincerity.have a nice day and keep in touch,god bless.