Have you stories of the mentally ill people around your area?
By EvesfrenAdry
@EvesfrenAdry (358)
Malaysia
October 29, 2006 4:49am CST
I once visited a friend at a neighbouring town and saw a very old lady, her hair all grey sitting on a huge stone beside the road and carrying a battered old luggage bag. I was told, about 50 years ago, her groom did not show up on their wedding day and eversince, she would sit there or walk to and fro waiting for her groom. She would talk to herself or ask everyone who walks pass her when her groom is coming. When their parents died, her younger brother who lives nearby takes care of her. She must be about 70 years old now. Its so sad, isn't it? Tell me your stories please.
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@EvesfrenAdry (358)
• Malaysia
29 Oct 06
Goodness Ynefzor! What is that magic mushroom? I've never heard it before - maybe not where I come from. I hope he learns his lesson. The madhouse is not a nice place to be in, touch wood.
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@EvesfrenAdry (358)
• Malaysia
29 Oct 06
Thank you Ynefzor for the lessons. I guess I should better stay away from the stuff. You never know when is enough and when is too much and where it could lead you from there - maybe more stuff.
@EvesfrenAdry (358)
• Malaysia
29 Oct 06
Oh No....why Nahal are you upset? Can I help you? Cheer up, ok? Think of the old lady...what could be worst? The story made you feel grateful with what you have, doesn't it? Help them if you can but be happy and sincere and you'll be fine. Takecare.
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@meetsammy (578)
• India
31 Oct 06
well i had visited an orphanage once....it was seriously a sight which could melt any heart....small boys and girls who belong to rich families, parents having enough money just dropping their children there....the reason being those children are not mentally stable....dunno what to say about those parents....
and then i have seen parents taking full care of their mentally disabled children....they are bringing them up and giving them everything a normal child deserves....so many diverse sights.....
@EvesfrenAdry (358)
• Malaysia
2 Nov 06
Meetsammy, thank you for visiting the orphange but don't just visit them once. Try to make an effort to visit them every weekend. A few hours with them, reading to them would be appreciated by them. You don't always have to donate money - just spend more time with them, eh? I'm glad and wish there are more people helping out like you. Thank you for sharing your experience.
@EvesfrenAdry (358)
• Malaysia
29 Oct 06
That's not very nice....isn't there a special home for them? Well, as long as they are not violent, vbembot. I somtimes give them food. I pity them so much. Thank you for your response.
@Cindyh2k (308)
• United States
29 Oct 06
My ex-husband's sister was born with Down's Syndrome. When she was born, the doctors suggested to her parents that they put her in an institute because she would never be able to learn. Her parents told the doctor that she would be going home with them.
She was loved and worked with and when it was time for school, she was placed in a special day school. She attended school for 12 years - learning to care for herself and learning to read at a minimum.
She graduated from high school and now works at the local library doing janitorial work. Her brother helps her manage her money - and she is very proud of the fact that she works and provides for herself.
We are very proud of her accomplishments - and are so happy that her parents did not listen to the doctor's advice! She is a very important part of our lives - and such an inspiration to us!!
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@EvesfrenAdry (358)
• Malaysia
29 Oct 06
Right decision, indeed Cindyh2k! When I'm off work weekends or public holidays, I work part-time at the centres. I divide my time at the orphanage or the blind centres. I have also worked with Down Syndrome children and they are simply adorable! I love them so much and get very emotional when I had to leave over some personal matters.
My best friend just passed away and at the moment I am still trying to deal with that sadness and grief and have not been to the centres for a while now. She was right though to have "introduced" me to myLot cos it helps to have friends, to sort of exchange views with.
Do give your ex-sister-in-law a huge hug and kisses for me when you see her. And thank you for your response. May God bless all of you.
@Cortney (3980)
• United States
30 Oct 06
I used to work in a group home with mentally and physically handicapped. It was very sad for some of them because their families just gave them away to the state. I used to do all the shopping for them and loved going and picking out things that fit their personalities. They would get XXXX amount of dollars a mth for clothing and personal stuff. My favorite time was shopping for Christmas for them. The home they lived in gave them each money out of the Homes money to shop for the others that lived their. I would take them with me and have them help me pick out things to give as gifts. some of them did not communicate well, but they would get so excited.
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@EvesfrenAdry (358)
• Malaysia
30 Oct 06
I know the feeling Cortney. I just love to help them too. Its a feeling difficult to explain. I love to be with the Downsyndrome and physically handicapped and the blinds but I handle the children better cos I like to listen to their stories and ideas and dreams. So innocent/naive they all are. Good to have people like you around.....thank you for sharing your experience with us. May God bless you.