Would you marry for any other reason than love?

Do you know that you can go to jail for marrying someone to keep them from being deported or to give them citizenship? You have to be very careful because they really investigate that stuff. I had a friend get caught doing that. He got deported and she went to jail. I did marry once without love. I was not in love with my second husband. Actually I do not think there is any such thing as love. There is lust, like, need, friendship, and companionship. Anyway, my kids picked him and wanted him around because they liked to camp and canoe and fish etc. Well he couldn't just live with us because that was a bad example for two young girls so I married him. Bad mistake. All he wanted was the money I was making. Such is life.

thats a stupid marriage... marrying bcoz u want him to stay or any ader reason that concludes that ur only frens in heart.. thats ridiculous!!! oh my god!!! i know im not in the place to say this but that relationship wont work... coz ur foundation is weak.. sorry if i offense u with these but i strongly disagree with that!!!

I could never marry anyone for any other reason. I need to be in love with someone. I can't marry for money, or convenience I would always be wondering what I am missing out on if I did.

No,I won't marry for any other reason than love.Because marriage is commitment for a lifetime and it can only be successful with an equal effort of both the partners and not one of them.Also,if the reason for marriage is not love but some kind of adjustment then even the married couple's child will be unhappy.

Yes, for personality and character, sarahruthbeth22! In fact, I have already done just that. I didn't even know the girl who happens to be my wife, before marriage. I was told by the wife of my friend about her noble personality. Later, my parents met her and very much liked her for what she was. I trusted my friend's wife and my parents and I have no regrets at all. It was a bet and I won:-) She is a wonderful girl and a great partner, the first and the last love of my life.

marry is social evidence to prove that we live together.there is may reason to marry without love.if a person have not a girl friend or boy friend or still he dint get any one as a life partner.then if he want to marry then he have not reason that he loving any one.so marry cant synonym to love.to pass your life smoothly u need a partner ,who care you and your family that require a partner . and you go for marry.what do u think

I love your frankness and as for me, I don’t really know coz I have practically not experienced any other reasons. I did flirt with a lot of well-heeled guys as I understood the comforts that money brings with it, but either they were too smart or I was too stupid. Anyway, when I met Mr. Right I was blown away too fast for me to understand the financial implications of the relation. He was definitely a very poor guy, much less down the social and financial status than me and yet, I was so much in love. I still am, after more than 10yrs of marriage to him. The road hasn’t been smooth, the journey had a lot of hiccups but I do believe that if I had swapped him for a rich guy, life would definitely have been pampered and charming and yet there would also be a tinge of loss somehow lingering like a thorn somewhere within the deepest recess of my heart.

hey, personailly i could never marry for any other reason than love. i mean, how can you commit to someone full if your not in love with them. love is the one thing that were all looking for, so i personailly cant understand people who do marry to keep peopole in the country etc

Well, I dont think that I would marry or be with someone with no love at all... its a whole life commitment and it is very difficult to bear all the problems that we would experience feeling no love at all for each other. I believe that LOVE is a very important components of marriages and all kinds of relationship. I believe that family life is affected with our feelings with our other half...

I would only marry for love period ,LOL! I believe helping a friend is not a bad act, only that there are consequences and if found out by the authority, you are both at stake to suffer and pay for it!

Marrying is not for time pass right? We make somebody our life partner for being with them till the end. We marry someone to help us leading our life till the end. Basically money is not at all important for living and based on that we should not select our husband or wife.

I can't see myself marrying anyone I did not love. I was married to someone who didn't have their citizenship, but I was in love with him. We didn't get married to keep him in the states, because he was already in the Us military. For me, marriage without love isn't possible. ~~Taz~~

hi frined.i would not marry anyone for any other reason than love.for me love is above all.if i the love is true then one can do wonders in their career and life as well.lots of money can be made at any point of life.but its really very important for me to live with the person who loves me a lot.alteast there should be one person around me who can understand me and be with me in all my odds.rest other things can be compromised.

if i were to marry i would go for love but i would make sure that if i will marry i can raise my children or my kid i dont want to deprive my kid to any materials or food in this wolrd but not to the extend that i will be spoiling my child . so as for me, i would marry for love, but make sure the man that i marry to is capable in raising a family

For me personally... I would never marry for any other reason but love. In my opinion -- marriage is something you should cherish and only share with one person. Marriage just seems to common these days, you see celebrities marrying and divorcing a number of times within a few years. Before someone decides to marry they should really get to know that person even if it takes 5+ years! It's odd seeing couples together for just a few months and then they are already married, seems like a lot of people aren't taking marriage seriously.

i dont kno if i would marry someone to keep them here ... to me marriage isnt something that u just go into its something u do cause u love the person u are with and want to spend the rest of your life with them

If this one treats me so well and loves me deeply. He will do anything for me to make me moved. I think I will marry to him because of it.

The first time I was married I was way too young. I married for all the wrong reasons. I guess I was in love, I don't know. This time I definitely married for love. Each marriage was/is hard in different ways. I would never marry for any other reason than for love now. Marriage is hard enough WITH love, there is no way I would marry without it. Plus, I would feel like true love may pass me by while I am married to someone for convenience. No thanks.

Unfortunately, I did marry and not love the person on my first marriage. I was pregnant and felt it was the right thing to do. i can't say i didn't love him...i just wasn't in love with him and knew he was not the right person for me. After we got divorced, I knew in my heart I would never marry again unless it was true love. I am now happily married to the love of my life and it's wonderful. No worries, no doubts...just knowing that this was the person that I was born to love and cherish the rest of my life. There is no way I would ever marry again, even if something happened to my husband or for some reason it didn't work out. I believe there is that one special person that was sent for you to love and only love them. I wouldn't ever marry again just to marry. It's not worth it in the end. God bless

I made the mistake of marrying someone becasue I didn't want to lose him. I figured we could be together forever because we had the same interests and wanted the same things. It turned out I really only loved him as a friend and the security he brought me. Of course it ended badly so this time it was for love and is so much better.