what is the differant between married and relationship...is it a paper?
By yefta_aye
@yefta_aye (637)
Indonesia
5 responses
@FreakQD (867)
• India
18 Dec 07
Yes man you are right. It is just a paper between marriage and relationship. Marriage is just a license for relationship and i am totally against it. I would prefer to have relationship without marriage. It is just my view and its not to insult any of the users here.
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
31 May 10
Marriage is about a marriage certificate. The couple will have got married and then lived together. In a relationship a couple might live together or they might date each other. If a married couple split up they can get a divorce. If a boyfriend and a girlfriend split up they don't have that to worry about getting. A honeymoon follows getting married. I had my honeymoon in Venice and I got divorced six years later.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
21 Dec 07
To me it is night and day.First I must say that I have never been married and I never will because I am very old fashioned when it comes to marriage.With marriage it is all about family obligation and two families joining. And marriage is for bearing children.Love may or may not be present at the beginning.But with a relationship it is a matter of love and choice. You can have kids or not.The rules are there are no rules and it is based on love, not society or family obligation.
@houndsgood (774)
• United States
18 Dec 07
You will probably hear from a lot of single people that a "paper doesn't mean anything," but from people who are in a healthy, solid marriage, you will hear that it marriage and a "dating" or "having a relationship" is no comparison. I have been married for 3 years, but we have been together a total of eleven years. It is different being married, even though people may say about people "oh they are practically married." There is a change in mindset, the willingness for you to go the extra mile to work things out, etc, and more. And there was a huge change to sharing absolutely everything.
@ernie_chantique (189)
• Indonesia
18 Dec 07
yes i think its about the paper, no not married...paper doesnt mean nothing...