which is the most important for lover,appearance,quality,character or money?

Wow, what a difficult choice! Hmm... In My humble opinion, I think character must be put on the first place, then appearance, then quality, and of course money. lol

I think quality and charactor are mor important than others,because they decide that he/she would be go alone with you how long timeAlthough your partner is beauty or millionmire,if he/she do't live with you long,it's nothing

What I look for is this combination: I must like her and she must like me. Appearance and character are important. Social status is not important for me. I'm capable of making my own money and so I never look for that in a person.

I think character is for me the most important (ofcourse appearance also).The inner side of a person weights more than how someone looks and more than money.You can buy a lot with money but you can not buy love. Being happy is much more important than having all the money in the world and feeling home alone.

I think a persons character is definitely more important. They can have all the money you want but if you cant stand their personality whats the point? What if you cant get along with them? The same with their appearance. They can be extremely attractive but you might not be able to stand being around them. I definitely go for character. If you fall in love with that person your going to find them attractive no matter what.

i say love money and attitude all in the same level. coz we need love, but we also need money for security and ofcourse we need someone whos responsible and that would roll into one with attitudec".)

Hi!! whats difference between character and quality? response to post i want say is that our character is most important factor to be consider!! while choosing my life partner i dnt need money !!ofcourse i need both character and appearance !! Appear is first impression,sometimes we may go with appearance too!!! but character is important one!

For me, the most important quality in a man is how he feels about God. If he does not have a relationship with God, he can not keep my attention past that. Then, I want to know about his character and how he treats his family. What values are most important to him and what he does to maintain those values. Next, I would have to be at least a little attracted to him in some kind of way. Then, I would want to find out about the money. That is not all that important, because we can always make money together.

Character for me, its the best for lovers we all get old and our face change but character will always stay. thats what i believe in

Hello there. Quality and good character are definitely what a husband must have. Looks and money are nice to have. If my future husband have both looks and money (on top of quality and good character which are must-haves), I wouldn't complain about it. LOL Most importantly, the guy must be someone who loves me and whom I love. He must be faithful. Faithfulness is the most important thing.

hi my best fren :) For me, when looking for a lifetime partner, i will put appearance as last because no matter how pretty/handsome one's partner is, we still have to face them for our whole life time :) bUt being pretty or handsome, doesn't mean that we will stay like that for our whole life, so appearance will be last for me.. Money is the 3rd choice as in this world now, we cant do without money.. BUt we need not be wealthy, as long as we can live a comfortable life :) 2nd choice will be nature of a person.. Because if a person is of a good nature, watever they do, they will think of others and put others b4 them.. And My 1st choice will be, getting along with each other.. In a relationship, there are bound to be listener and adviser, giver and taker, peace and mess.. If anything less, there will be quarrels every now and then.. And will make each other very unhappy.. In a relationship, happiness is the most important.. So if can get along well, we will naturally be happy and So it's my 1st choice :)

well i feel for a lover the quality should come at first, i mean the compatability, then character then money and atlast appearance. same like you i have proved when i got a boyfriend with this sequence and we are also going along with each other happily and from last 3 yrs

I can't agree with you more! Quality and character are the most important factors, appearance is important but choosing a lifetime partner is a dicision that may influence my whole life, therefore i put quality and character in the first place. Then i 'll put appearance and i'll put money at last.

Well,I completely agree with you opinion.I also think that quality is the most important.I'd rather share all my life with a kind girl,of course I love beautiful girl,but I don't care about if she have money.I love her heart and body,not money.

To me the most important thing for a life partner is the "character" of that person. I find it the most important part of a human. Appearance goes... ..I don't know what do you exactly mean by "quality" in here. ( so can't comment ) money will also go some day..!! but something that remains with you life time is the "character" of yours..!! I want to find a life partner who has a good character in first place. Every thing else takes the second place. :)

i think most important are quality as a person and character as well. Then comes appearance and money. But all the things mentioned here has little or bir value in any realtionship as i guess.

I think I'd go to the character first, secondly appearance, then quality and lastly money. Character is the most important aspect to look into a partner because these is where you feel confident at all times when troubling issues comes along. Getting to know about your partners character will help you understand your partner very well in such things that both of you talk about.

Hi and welcome to Mylot...soon you'll be hitting your 100 mark...good for you. I like this topic and it was good to read about your value system and why you love your hubby. I am totally on the same page with you on this one. I love my hubby's inner essence. He is has a good heart, is hardworking, caring, compassionate and I love and trust him. I have a strong sense of emotional security with him and that means more to me than being with someone with fame, fortune or wealth. All of that can change in a moment...but when we are fortunate to have found someone with the character traits of your hubby and mine we are truly blessed. Best regards to you and your beloved, Raia

well i really dont understand what is the difference between quality and character.it goes hand in hand.for me as well quality and character comes first.i think money can always be earned and looks are something which nobody can do anything in this regard.i am marreid to a person who is very down to earth and respects my feelings and emotions.he is working on a good post.after my marriage he has got a very good promotion as well.so all in all i am very satisfied with him

Looks are not important. I know the first thing that attracts me is a man's eyes and then his personality. Respect is a pretty major thing too. If you don't have respect then the relationship won't be very good. It would be nice to have money but the way I look at it if you have each other and a good relationship then you are rich.