Does the love bulid on the basis of money?
By JamesMa
@JamesMa (119)
China
December 19, 2007 9:43am CST
Does the love build on the basis of money?
I met a girl, she had a very good impression with me.
When we talked something which were about the future, such as the house, the car, the salary and so on, she would dispoint for I was just a common banker.
I had promised I would work hard to make a progress but I could not promise I could earn much money for everything were depends on the human relations in today's society. I am very common, I don't know of any powerful men who will help me to make a promotion. I lack of confidence, not for my ability, but for the reality of the society.
Therefore, she still dose not response me, and it seems she will continue to find a rich man who also loves her and will marry her. But she also does not give me up.
I puzzle. Does the love build on the basis of money?
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9 responses
@elshaddai123 (3981)
• Kottayam, India
19 Dec 07
love never grow on money.Love needs nothing in return
@jesbellaine (4139)
• Philippines
26 Apr 08
No, I don't believe that love builds on the basis of money. My boyfriend and I were together for almost a year, we have both jobs and money but there comes a time that one struggle because of money but we stayed and helped each other to get through with the money problem so if your love is true then you and your partner will find ways to make LOVE as the first option then money as the second reason to stay together since we can't live without money and love. You just need to balance it.
@sunshinelady (7609)
• United States
6 Apr 08
Different people are different. There are some who place a lot of emphasis on money. Then you have those that realize that money isn't everything. I am in this group. Money can be lost sometimes easily and if that is what your relationship is based on the losing of it could cause some big problems. I look at how the person themself is and what kind of a personality they have. Whether we are compatable. I have been married to the same man for 35 years and we started out with little. Throughout the problems that arose we stuck by each other and helped each other. We have a bit more than we had back then but we still love each other. Money is just material and can be lost quickly. Love is there always.
@coly20032003 (428)
• China
5 Apr 08
I don't think love is always build on the basis of money.Maybe sometimes we need money to do something,but I consider that pure love is not base on money ,I believe there is true love in the world.Compare with love,money is not so important in fact~
@Emma_Wang (210)
• China
6 Apr 08
i don't know how to answer your question for sure,but actually i am facing the same question that whether i will choose the man i don't like but he his rich or the man who i love but poor.so you know,this is life and this ids reality.maybe love is not build on the money,but marrige needs a stable basis of money.so if you want to marrige with soemone and you want to both of you can live happily,you should have a stable fountaination.
@hitsman99 (42)
• Canada
23 Apr 08
Money does not buy or make love. If someone is only interested in someone for their money then they are not worth dealing with. Love has to come from the heart not the wallet
@tyren_1988 (9)
• China
19 Dec 07
i will say yes ,it build on the basis of money .if you don't have enough money ,like you say you can't get the car the house the salary and so on .you take what feed her your lover ,the most you love .yes you will i love her very very much ,but no money ,that is only an empty talk .understand .
@forbiddenhermit (40)
• China
28 Oct 08
Love is not built on the basis of money but is cultivated on the basis of money as time goes by..at first it's built on some attractive points you like from your lover,then built on understanding and respect from each other..but ypu do need money to strengthen your love because it's a realistic society..money is not everything but it's a useful tool to make life run more smooth..
