I had an arguement with someone

United States
December 19, 2007 2:35pm CST
And they really just don't seem to be listening to my side of it. Any general advice? I can see where they are coming from, but at the same time, i feel that they aren't listening to me at all.
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Live2Learn
@Live2Learn (272)
• United States
19 Dec 07
Hmm. I would have to say, ask them if they are listening.. I think our nature is to kind of turn off when we think we are right. No what I mean.
Live2Learn
@Live2Learn (272)
• United States
19 Dec 07
*know what I mean* oops! :-)
Turhamkey
@Turhamkey (64)
• United States
19 Dec 07
Yea thanks, i guess its really hard for me. I try so hard to get them to listen to what i have to say, but in the end i feel like I'm speaking nothing.
Live2Learn
@Live2Learn (272)
• United States
19 Dec 07
Yeah. I hear ya. I'm not sure what to say b/c I don't know the nature of the argument or whatever or who it was with. But I guess I agree with the post below....just shrug it off. I guess. Some people just aren't going to listen.
frugalmom
@frugalmom (21)
• Philippines
25 Dec 07
as long as you had already gave your piece and had laid your card on the table, then it's up to them to weight things...
simplyman2006
@simplyman2006 (1706)
• India
22 Dec 07
i think then u should keep quite and stay an watch them if they will ask u , then give them