what is best, love after marriage or marriage after love?

marriage after love. it's romantic to think of marrying someone for whatever reason and later you fall in love with each other but most like likely that's not bound to happen. I say, fall in love, be with each other for awhile, at least a year, then get married.

Love before marriage and love after marriage both are best. Because love it self is best. Rose in every form and at any time is called rose. Love in every form and in every situation is called love and it is best in every form. If you like a person before marriage and you become his or her spouse it is good luck. You got your love your desire and now you should keep continue the love for your family for your better future. Love cause to marry and love causes to stable the relationship after marriage. So it is good before and after marriage to keep one in your heart.

i think both are necessary for a couple. but I think befofre getting married one should live the would be life partner first. I myself do not believe in marrying a person without liking that person. So its better to love someone, then tie the knot if you love him and continue loving him after marriage as well.

love before marriage is better,i think.

marriage after love is necessary...love after marriage is being socialized!

definately love before marriage. love can grow after marriage, but getting married before love is pointless.

To me, understanding after marriage is the best because, understandind makes you last while love can be broken. that is if the understandind is not there.

if i were to be asked i want to marry the person i love with all my heart. so its love before marriage.

Why not both? I'd prefer to love the person before AND after I've married him, since that's the best way to ensure a long and happy relationship. ;D

In my opinion,the love before marriage is better,because in this situation,the marriage can be last a long time by the dependment of the love,although there are some diffirent between lovers,And if you married before love,although you can develop love in after days,but also it would be happened that you marriage will destroyed before love has developed,for it without any basis.