how long after you married,you get feel boring with your partner?

Indonesia
December 20, 2007 5:15am CST
me,...after 3 years but i still love my partner...just my feel...
2 people like this
6 responses
• United States
20 Dec 07
I have been married for almost 16 yrs and I can honestly say "no " I am not bored, our relationship is fun and playful and we still flirt with each and still after 16 yrs have incredible chemistry together. People ask us all the time if we are newlyweds.
• United States
20 Dec 07
Thanks so much !!!
• United States
20 Dec 07
Wow: is all I can say..that you should ask this..I mean..I am not in such a relationship..but if I had a partner and was married..I would hope each day would be like the first..I never thought that married people could actually be bored of each other..What would cause such a thing..is there really love then ..if you are bored???
• Indonesia
20 Dec 07
i don't know but it's like a tradition from life
• United States
21 Dec 07
If the love for him out weighs the boredom than you can fix that.If you can, have a date night, a night where you and your husband go out or stay in and reconnect.Or take a weekend and do something you have always wanted to do together.Try a new hobby that you can do together. Good Luck
@kellys3ps (3723)
• United States
24 Dec 07
You have to work at keeping the spark alive in your marriage. It is not the same butterfly feeling you get in the begining of a relationship, but it is deeper and more meaningful!
• Indonesia
20 Dec 07
my friend say after 3 years every partner have feel boring like you said
@vera5d (4005)
• United States
22 Dec 07
we never get bored...we are comfortable...we also do things to make sure we don't get bored try starting a new hobby together...or making new friends at a group...go dancing, go out somewhere new...there are a lot of things you can do to liven things up again...don't worry