How you keep this relationship when trust and feeling are gone??
By yefta_aye
@yefta_aye (637)
Indonesia
December 20, 2007 10:10pm CST
This is happen to me in few week.. my boyfriend change alot when i come back from tarveling.. i got shock and i just can't trust him anymore.. i don't should i do to have his heart back.. cause i still love him.. and i am not ready to let him go.. what should i do?? i am out of control?? i need your opinions.
this is a story about one of my best friends.. just happens this week..
love ayexxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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7 responses
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
21 Dec 07
It is hard change when you don't know what has happened. You should sit him down and ask him what happened when you were on vacation.I hope everything works out.
@yefta_aye (637)
• Indonesia
21 Dec 07
My fd juz talk 2 her bf this few week..her bf dun noe wat goin on..but they both dun want 2end up like dat..the girl cry all nite and use to call me when she is down..i dun noe wat 2do..they both r my best fd..n..i cant help anything..she kep asking me wat should i do 2get her bf heart back..she say this relationship was not as swet as b4..u r a girl..wat do u think is the best way for u 2hv ur bf heart back..if u were her??
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
23 Dec 07
She should ask what happened. If one day he was nice and the next he was distant then something must have happened. There isn't anything you can do to make someone love you again if you don't know what happened to make him change.As her friend,just be there for her.
@ernie_chantique (189)
• Indonesia
24 Dec 07
i think you have big problem,....but i will asking to my friend how handle this problem
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
21 Dec 07
I am just wondering why you keep on saying that you still love him but then you are saying that you can't trust him anymore.... Trust is one of the foundation of love and you cannot love a peson that you do not trust or you are losing it. If you really love that person then you have to trust him more than anything else. Else you should move on and find a person that you can trust and love.
@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
21 Dec 07
What happened? Did the guy cheat? If he did then it should be over. Never forgive a cheater so easily. If you ever forgive him, make sure he learns his lesson first.
@nmhschic2004 (1238)
• United States
22 Dec 07
If you cant trust your boyfriend and you dont have feelings for him any longer then maybe you shouldnt be in the relationship. You have to have trust in a relationship. If you dont have trust i dont see how you can have anything. If you still love him you should sit down and talk to him about the problems you are having. Maybe you will be able to work them out. Good luck, i hope it all works out for the best.
@contact2web (51)
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21 Dec 07
keep yourself in control. We get angry with whom we love very much. So stay cool and do not think much about this issue. Rather stay calm and wait for a day. If still you have the same feeling what you had earlier then it is time to review your meaning for relationship
@zhwbeast (326)
• China
21 Dec 07
In the mordern society,transfer love from one person from others is normal,And trust is the basis of the love and without it,love could not last a long time.You has no feeling of happiness together with him,although you don't prepared to let him go,you should give up.
