It about my x boyfriend(A) and new boyfriend(B)..
By yefta_aye
@yefta_aye (637)
Indonesia
December 20, 2007 10:45pm CST
It a story about my close friends it happen a few week ago..;
"I have been break up with my X boyfriend(A) seen may and i get together with my new boyfriend(B)..Before i get together with my new boyfrined(B)i was having a hard time to choose..at the same time they both was forcing me..the both was having a different style and different emotion..The both have they own good..It take almost 2month for me to choose one of them..(B)is near by my side..but (A)is in aus..it really hard for me when i miss him i just cant see or touch him..But (B) was totally not my type..My type is (A)..It really confused me..They both were a nice guys and i dont want to hurt anyone of them..at last i choose (B) to be my boyfriend and break up with (A)..Till now it been 6month ago we break i still feel sorry for him and i just cant do anything for him..he email me today he said..i am suffering right at this time..i try to love some one but in my eyes there's only you..i have no interest with any girls..i drank every night..i find alot of way to forget you but i just cant babee..what should i do..all i want its you..i can do every thing to have your heart back..just tell me how..right at this moment i drop down in tears cause i have the same situation before and i know every clear how hurt is it..i still care about (A) but i have (B) already..i cant have two BOYFRIEND at the same time..tell me what should i do?? I DONT WANT TO HURT ANY ONE OF THEM.. I LOVE BOTH OF THEM..
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5 responses
@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
21 Dec 07
look deep into your soul and heart and ask who you would prefer to be with? Did you give up A only becasue of the distance? Is there a way to fix the distance and make that a viable relationship? Or are you happy with B even though you don't feel he's your type? This is a very hard decision take some time to be with yourself without either of them for a day no communication at all and sit don and make two colums for each of pros and cons and then decide. Make sure you take your heart into consideration. I hate to say it in these situations someone always gets hurt. What counts is how you handle the situation. Good Luck I don't envy you with this situation.
@yefta_aye (637)
• Indonesia
21 Dec 07
emm..thx alot 4ur comment..i hv been hurted alot b4..so i juz dun want any body to get hurt like i do..i noe it hard but i realy hv 2think alot..if u were me..wat will u do..they both are nice n u love them..one is not ur type..one is far away from u..who will u choose??
@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
21 Dec 07
i know you want help with this decision but I don't have all the facts ... I would make a list and the guy with the most pro's would win. Isn't there a way that you and the guy far away can make arrangements for him to move closer or even to a half way point..I think you need to step back and approach this by a pro and con thing ... and see where that leads you.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
21 Dec 07
I think here you can only help yourself. you have to think in cool mind what you actually want.Look as you have admitted lovinf two at the same time is not possible. Also it is not good either. But why did you break up with your ex? If he can't live without you, he must have loved you so much. Still you broke up. Think whom you want and then act accordingly.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
21 Dec 07
It is hard but you have to pick the guy you love the most.You will be happier with the one you love most. If it is A then it is a long distance romance but it will be better than staying with B and dreaming about A. If it is B, then you have a guy that is right there, and that is better than having to write or call your boyfriend.
@nkhanna (922)
• India
21 Dec 07
well yours is a case which is normally very common in the teenage girl.i am not sure abut your age.however my honest suggestion to you is that you should listen to your heart.ask your heart which one do you like and who care for you.look there are few things which are very important in love according to me.firstly the person should respect you and your feelings,should understand you at all points and situations of life and be with you.the person should love you a lot.well now i will suggest you to have a deep thinking about this.it realy does not matter if a person is near to you or far away.what matters is he should be with you whenever you need.and once you have made up your mind,try avoiding all contacts from the other person.if you dont do this it will always give a chance to that person to contact you and hamper your normal life ,as it did now to you after six months.make an honest decision and abide it.look you cannot make everyone happy in your one life.its your life afterall,and you need to be happy as well
