Age responsibility should start.

United States
December 21, 2007 9:05am CST
At what age do you feel your child should be responsible for cleaning his or her own room?
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@uath13 (8192)
• United States
21 Dec 07
As soon as they can crawl out or the crib & mess it up. If you don't start from the very beginning they'll resist the whole time.
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• United States
21 Dec 07
I started at the age of 3 having them do it while i supervised I also helped and made it a game with a song to make it somewhat fun but by the time each of them hit five I decided that they were on their own. Now I make the beds until they are seven but toys and dirty clothes they know where it goes. All i ask for my 4 and 5 and 6 yr old to do is put the blankets in a pile on the bed instead of all over their floors. thank you for your post.
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@uath13 (8192)
• United States
21 Dec 07
We did similar things. We don't even swet the bed. Their just going to lay in it and mess it up later anyways. So long as I can get around the room without stepping on something its OK.
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• United States
21 Dec 07
yep I have five kids my motto is don't sweat the small stuff.
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24 Dec 07
I think children should start to tidy their toys in their room by about 2 years old. I think the parent should tidy their room and get them to join in as if its a game, so they learn to tidy up when they are finished playing with their toys at an early age. I think if they gradually get use to it, it will be helpful to them and their parents when they are older. I don't think childrens rooms should be completly clean(with no toys on the floor) because they learn by making a mess and tidying up too. ~Joeys wife
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• United States
24 Dec 07
thank you for your insight and hope you have a happy holidays.
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
22 Dec 07
I would say as soon as possible. As soon as they are able to pick things up and put it in some place. At first you can let them dump all the toys into a basket or box after they are done playing and slowly work towards better cleaning. From my experience, the earlier you start, the easier it is. When they are younger you will have to be with them to make sure they do it. The right age? As a mother you should be able to judge that - anywhere between the age of 1 and 3.
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• United States
22 Dec 07
Yeah I mostly started showing them where there toys go around age 3. Thanks for your input.
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@lbinkley (1075)
• United States
24 Dec 07
I started making my son clean his room at age 2 with me in there with him to supervise. I made him put all of his toys back in the toy box and we made it a game while we sing the "clean up" song. Now, I didn't expect him to make his bed or dust or any of that of course. Now he is 4 and I expect that he pick up his own toys, at least put the blanket ON his bed if they are tossed off of it, and put books away. I still help with detailed things, but he is expected to keep it neat. Every night before bed he picks up.
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• United States
24 Dec 07
yeah I started at age 3 with the clean up song and started to help and I just made mine throw the blankies on the bed so I could make it ...
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• United States
21 Dec 07
I started the clean up responsibility as soon as my now 3 year old started to walk...now he picks up without me telling him too. As long as he knows where things go, he will put the toys in his room away. It has been a ritual for 2 years to clean up after you're done playing and to clean up all your toys before bed. so, at what do I feel? Not so much an age as when they start walking.
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• United States
21 Dec 07
thank you for your response. If I ever have another I'll try that..
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