when you and your friends fight?
By flomikren
@flomikren (301)
Philippines
December 21, 2007 9:10pm CST
i have this friend for so long. as i remember 2 years ago we fight coz she's jealous of me. her boyfriend flirting me but i ignore her boyfriend inspite of that she keeps jealous of me.. but she was the one who realizes her mistake, she approach me one day, i said that i'm not mad at her i'm just giving her space. so that her boyfriend could not see me anymore.. after that one on one talk we became friends again.. you? how do you make things work out if you and your friends fight?
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12 responses
@asgtswife04 (2475)
• United States
22 Dec 07
It really depends on the situation. If it was over something like that, then I would just calmly explain that you were staying away because you didn't want her to feel uncomfortable being around you with her boyfriend there and that you have absolutely no feelings for this man what so ever. There are other times though that some issues with my friends and i that cannot be resolved, like letting them borrow money and then them using it for something totally different than you thought they would use it for and then not repaying you. I have been struggling with that at this moment and time and unfortunately she is my neighbor and our kids play together. It's really a tough call to make, but certain situations can be resolved over time and then some can't. I'm glad that the two of you are friends again. I know you were happy to have that relationship with your friend again especially if she was a true friend. good luck and God bless
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@flomikren (301)
• Philippines
22 Dec 07
thank you... GOD BLESS YOU TOO... hope you find a true friend.
@glitzypurple (1477)
• Philippines
22 Dec 07
I had an officemate whose boyfriend liked me and even courted me when they broke up.. We weren't really that close but there's coldness and uneasiness between us. I guess we're really not meant to be friends since all of the guys who liked her also liked me. But we didn't fight and now we are okay but not that close or like best friends, we just don't talk that much.
@flomikren (301)
• Philippines
22 Dec 07
ah it's just a matter of being polite... am i correct? anywayz just keep it up, it's not your fault if your beautiful.
@enter802 (52)
• Bangladesh
23 Dec 07
its quite a simple thing actually 2 b jealous of u in such a situation.after all who wud want his/her gf/bf 2 flirt wid his/her close frnd?no1 can accept dat n surely will feel insecure....but it was really nice 2 hear dat ur frnd understood her mistake n apologized 2 u :)..i guez u r lucky 2 have such a frnd cuz nowadays every1 likes 2 stay wid der personal ego prob...n wen it comes 2 me n if i were in a situation like u.den i wud have gone 2 my frnd directly n talk 2 him about da mattr.if da mattr was still unresolved den i wud have done wat u did n let him realize his mistake
@flomikren (301)
• Philippines
24 Dec 07
thank you.. that's what i did. i talk to her first, but she didn't listen, as they say love is blind. thank GOD it ends well.
@xtiffi (11)
• United States
24 Dec 07
Its weird, because I have had a friend for 13 years, my best friend, and randomly we will fight. But then we will just call each other up and its back to normal. Ithink when yu are so close to someone and such good friends it is hard to stay mad.
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@flomikren (301)
• Philippines
25 Dec 07
that's why we gorgive them after all... thank you... merry christmas!!!
@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
23 Dec 07
Well you were innocent in this case. It was all her boyfriend's fault. He already has a girlfriend so he shouldn't be flirting with other girls!
Anyway, I totally respect my friends and their girlfriends/wives, so we have never had to fight in a situation like that.
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@flomikren (301)
• Philippines
23 Dec 07
thank you... that's why i decided before to give my friend space so that it will not go to the worst situation
@tryxiness (4544)
• Philippines
22 Dec 07
When we are really in a fight or some sort of cold war, we would take a break from each other. I mean, among friends, people too need space. :)
@flomikren (301)
• Philippines
22 Dec 07
correct friend!!! they say that it's just a matter of time... and they say also that time can heal wounds...
@xXxMikesWifeyxXx (3072)
• United States
22 Dec 07
dude me and my friends we fight,argue whatever but we always dont let that get in the way of our friendship.we fight ab0out it til its over and then its over:) we go on
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@flomikren (301)
• Philippines
23 Dec 07
it's good to know that you are not getting sick of that situation, how about after 40 years, would it be the same? LOL...
@reanicah2007 (444)
• Philippines
23 Dec 07
yeah,me and my friend sometimes we have a fight.but we are ok now, its because she realize that this is her mistake and she said sorry and i forgive her and give her a one more chance to be my friend.and of course i really love my friend we are friend in 1 year and half.and i don't like her sad thats why i always made her happy. and until now we are a good friends and happy together.
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@flomikren (301)
• Philippines
23 Dec 07
we have something in common, we both love our friends... thank you.
@flomikren (301)
• Philippines
22 Dec 07
thanks for the response.. it's good to know that you are always open to each other... keep it up.
@flomikren (301)
• Philippines
23 Dec 07
that's true, everything must start with heart to heart talk, so that you can see each other point of views. GOD BLESS...