Break-ups
By Angeluvya19
@Angeluvya19 (8)
United States
December 21, 2007 11:41pm CST
Life deals all kinds of cards.
sometimes they're good sometimes they're great.
But they're not so good.
Tormenting even.
Like when you're going through a break up.
I used to wonder why break-ups were so traumatic.
But once I was involved in a relationship of my own.
Expected to give and do so much.
No more than I am used to do , but, the only difference is ,now I'm doing it unconsciously from the heart.
Expecting the same in return.
After certain experiences in a relationship you share souls, hearts, and at time you begin to even share thoughts .
You find yourself thinking of the same things you would expect your mate to.
Then all of a sudden a link in the chain is broken **POP**, and you get angry and they get angry.
And GOD forbid, YOU say something a little hurtful to the other.
A devastating break in a relationship never to be the same again.
Now , I think I'll just leave this part open for the rest of you ...
Do you have any break-up stories, funny or sad you would like to add to my post.
Or just anything you would love to get off of your chest... If so FEEL FREE TO LET IT ALL OUT RIGHT HERE :)
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3 responses
@berryliciousme (1003)
• Philippines
23 Dec 07
Break-up is never easy no matter how supportive your family or friends are (but of course that helps). It's actually TIME that really heals the wounds. In my life, I went into 2 excruciating break ups. The first one was when I was 16. That was what they call a puppy love, but it hurt nonetheless to let go of the first relationship you had. The next one was when I was 21. That one really broke my heart into pieces. But I learned that acceptance is the key. I let myself cry and be very open about my emotions and to stay as far away from that person. It was also a blow on the self-esteem but I constantly remind myself that regardless of what happened, I am a child of God, I'm unique and I'm beautiful. Prayer really helps a lot.
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@nmhschic2004 (1238)
• United States
23 Dec 07
I always hated going through breakups. My heart always felt like it was broken into a milllion pieces. And i always felt like i would never get over it. But i made one BIG mistake everytime a relationship ended. I started dating someone else right away to get over all the hurt that i felt. Needless to say my relationships didnt last long. I finally realized i needed some me time. So i gave myself some me time and now i have a husband that loves me very much.
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@lucgeta (924)
• France
27 Dec 07
Agreed 100%. The break-up is the part of the relationship - hope not - that no one should bring their feelings or emotions. Asking why or how come can only get worst. The best to do is just remind the other how you like and love. Things can be worked out some other time.
